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Newsflash from the frontlines of the gender war: Apparently some of the ladies are getting tattoos!
Luckily for us, The Spearhead is on the case. In a recent post titled “Ruminations from Seat 22D,” Spearhead guest poster Lyn87 reported on an encounter with one of these ghastly creatures:
I recently took a long trip for work and spent a lot of hours in the air. One of my fellow passengers really stood out in my mind: a 20-something lass a few rows ahead of me. She is a natural-born beauty in that “launch a thousand ships” kind of way – slim, near-perfect symmetrical features, piercing blue eyes, and a shapely body. She is, simply, stunning. But there’s more to this story than a retired soldier admiring an exquisite example of female flesh young enough to be my daughter.
Well, we’re off to a really creepy start here.
It was actually her tattoo that first caught my attention.
Oh, that’s where we’re going. This is going to be one of those “women with tattoos are whores” kind of story.
She was wearing a low-slung top that revealed a HUGE eagle inked across her chest and extending down under the front of her shirt. And then I noticed her hair – what little there was of it. I’ve always kept my hair short, even by military standards, and her hair was shorter than mine.
Tattoos and a short haircut! Excuse me for a moment; I think I’m getting the vapors.
Few things de-feminize a woman more than buzzing off her hair, which is why it is considered to be shameful in many societies. She was wearing ratty, ripped jeans and far too much costume jewelry.
I can’t believe we let women leave the house in such attire.
And then I noticed the piercings.
Not the piercings!
As I stood six inches behind her for several minutes waiting to de-plane I counted seven, and that was just what was visible. I wondered what else she had done to herself. A tramp-stamp is a given, but who knows what other “body art” was hidden out of my view.
We can only imagine. Some Matisse prints? A mural in the style of Diego Rivera? A reproduction of Michelangelo’s David? One of the plates from Judy Chicago’s Dinner Party?
[M]en like me, the kind of man women say they want – responsible, courteous, masculine, respectable, upwardly mobile – [avoid] women like her even as long-term girlfriends, let alone wives.
I’m pretty sure that women like her — or like most women — are not much interested in men who are not only old enough to be their father but who also read The Spearhead.
[I]a person goes to great lengths to project a certain persona, especially in a way designed to attract attention, it says something about him/her. I asked myself what would cause the stunningly-beautiful young woman on my flight – at the height of her Sexual Market Value – to do that to herself? Women dress for us, so what does she intend for us to infer? I’m easy? I’m rebellious? I can drink you under the table?
Maybe: “If you’re the sort of misogynist creep who’s going to jump to weird conclusions about my character based on my tattoos, my piercings, and even on the length of my fucking hair, and then write about it at length on a site overflowing with similarly misogynist creeps, I’d rather not have anything to do with you?”
But Lyn87 seems unable to understand why anyone would want to send such a message:
I can think of no message that her chosen facade would convey that would be in her long-term interest. In a few years after her looks fade she is likely to be just another tatted-up skank wondering where the good men are.
Wherever these “good men” are, I’m pretty sure they aren’t reading or writing for The Spearhead.
It didn’t have to be this way. In a different social environment a woman like her would have learned to be (gasp!) feminine. She would have observed the older women in her surroundings and absorbed benevolent patriarchy in the air she grew up breathing.
Oh lord.
With her beauty she could have married above her economic station and lived a comfortable life. We can’t know if she would have been happy, but she almost certainly would have had stability, security and comfort.
Hey, who needs happiness when you’ve got patriarchy!
But she doesn’t live in that society; she lives in a “Slut Walk” society, thanks to feminism. When she chose the “Suicide Girl” look nobody stopped her.
Um, who exactly is supposed to stop her from dressing and looking how she likes?
Now she has mutilated herself with enough ink and metal trinkets to repel the kind of man most likely to give her the life she wants, because no matter what she does to the outside of her body, she will eventually want what women have always wanted on the inside – stability, security and comfort.
Hmm. Could it be that she’s not actually interested in the life a man could “give her,” and perhaps more interested in the sort of life she can, you know, give herself?
The fruits of feminism: what a waste.
Only if you’re a narcissistic misogynist who thinks the world revolves around his preferences.
Next up on The Spearhead: Airline peanuts — Tool of they Gynofascist Matriarchy?
@ Quackers – I always think this when Meller starts ranting, actually. I’m petite with long hair and big boobs and feminine facial features – if he saw me in the street he’d probably think “how pettable”. Sucks for him that some of us can hide our spikes* until they’re needed.
*Quills? He seems to be obsessed with porcupines recently. What did those cute little critters ever do to him?
I wonder what the airplane guy’s standard for an appropriate hair length is. I mean, I was thinking about getting my hair feathered a la Luke Skywalker, but heaven forbid I attempt it if it means men who are old enough to be my father will disapprove.
I love how it doesn’t seem to occur to him for even a second that she most likely doesn’t give a flying fuck what he thinks of her…
I don’t have any tattoos – couldn’t afford it when I was younger and now that I can afford it, I feel like I’m too old (yeah, I’m only 28, not that old! :). Loveliest tattoo I ever saw was a girl I used to work with, who had a spray of cherry blossom right across her back. Utterly beautiful and very feminine.
My husband has many tattoos, but my favourite is the Shakespeare quote he has on his inner arm in honour of our favourite book.
“The moon’s an arrant thief, and her pale fire she snatches from the sun.”
Even if she is interested in men, and even if she got her tattoos to draw men’s attention towards her, she would be interested in getting men that like that sort of thing. There are plenty of them out there.
Personally, I must admit I have a sort of negative gut-reaction to tattoos and face piercings. To me, they really do severely take way from a woman’s attractiveness, particularly the type of chest tattoo he describes.
But so fucking what? Who gives a shit what I think about how they should look, dress or act? It’s none of my business … Except men who fasten the bottom button on single breasted jackets. Fuck those guys.
Also, wearing fedoras/trilbies backwards or to the side doesn’t make you look cool. It’s just douchey.
Ah, I love my tattoo. I got it to commemorate finishing the comic strip I’d drawn for six years. It’s a pink heart on my left bicep (my drawing arm!). My husband held my hand while I got it.
I’ve thought of getting another one when I finish my current comic, but that won’t be for a long time.
“benevolent patriarchy in the air she grew up breathing”
There’s something worse than smog?
Don’t worry about being ‘too old’ to get a tattoo. If you’d got one when you were younger, you’d have it now, still, so it doesn’t matter when you get it.
Off topic. If there was an object way of meauring beauty, the unit of measurement would be the Millihelen – the exact amount of beauty needed to launch one ship. 🙂
@Cassandra- the great thing about that though is that it will probably make him even more uncomfortable knowing that feminism isn’t just something for hairy lesbians, even petite feminine women embrace it. It would blow his mind 😀
I’m a trap! Girly looking women who’re actually evil feminist shrikes, we’re everywhere!
Maybe if we freak him out enough he’ll go back to using his indignant sign-offs.
CassandraSays, if you hung around with a tattooed, hairy lesbian who is anti-feminist, you could really send them into a tizz 😉
Can the anti-feminist lesbian be holding a really cute fluffy cat that growls and scratches when he tries to pet it?
Well, and there you go. That’s the difference between acknowledging a preference and acting like women’s bodies are on display for your own personal pleasure.
So, our good friend Antz had this to say on the OP:
Is this true? This seems … untrue.
I always laugh when I imagine running into someone line the Meller-toad in analog. I can only imagine the cognitive dissonance that must set in for people whose view of the world is so skewed and limited that they believe, truly believe, that they can ascertain a person’s belief system from their clothing.
Suffice it to say, I present as pretty friggin’ feminine. I mean, my costume for Halloween this year is Carmen Jones and my sister joked that it’s barely a costume.
And tattoos are such a generational thing. I mean the thing that struck me, just as hard as the self centered presumptiveness, of the OP was how much he sounded like an old fogey.
This is gonna come out all weird, but as a short-haired, not at all feminine, not at all “alluring” feminist… I’d like to think I’m more than just a damaging stereotype.
I know you’re just funnin’, but some of us are fat hairy-legged manly feminists.
Sorry, Holly, not in any way meaning to imply that we don’t love and value feminists regardless of their choice of gender presentation, etc. I’m just trying to poke Meller to see if he can be persuaded to throw a tantrum.
Holly, I don’t think of you as a “damaging stereotype”. I think of you as a person who is dressing -as I hope everyone is- to please yourself. To hell with everyone else. And I hope that nothing written here makes you feel uncomfortable.
Basically my point is that if you’re a guy like this, there is no safe space for you. Women who look soft and compliant will yell and you and call you an asshole, cute fluffy kittens might bite you – basically, there’s no way to get around the fact that other living creatures have free will. So, sucks to be a guy whose idea of utopia hinges on the existance of a class of being that exists purely in order to serve your will and make you happy, because it’s never going to happen.
Holly, I’m feminine but certainly not petite. I think that this should prove to Meller and the rest of those idiots that actual feminists don’t fit the straw-feminist stereotype. If we are happy with how we choose to look regardless, that’s pretty much the antithesis of what the MRAs expect of women 😀
I am too!
Sorry, had a moment of sensitivity. I do know what you’re saying about “MRAs can’t trust the girly ones” though, and I am amused by that.
I also think they can’t trust the huge number of women who don’t identify as feminist, but still know some bullshit when they see it.
One might argue that the best thing about the MRA movement is how many women it may drive towards feminism purely because of how clear their babble makes it that we’re not even close to equal yet.
Wow! The amazingly egotistical assumption that his standards are universal just oooozes from Mr. Lyn87. I present in a fairly conventionally feminine, professional way now, and hide my ink, but i have always had short hair, and used to dress in not-feminine clothes specifically to NOT attract dudes like that.
Finding out about the MRA movement has made me even more of a feminist. I did question some aspects of feminism though, I do think that male DV could be handled better and am more attuned to sexism against men, however when they start spewing misogyny, downplay and outright deny the inequalities and sexism women face and have faced in the past and try to harm women by attacking services that help them…they just lose me after that. Its quite sad because I do think men have their own shit to deal with too, the MRA movement is just completely hostile though. Its not a movement brought together by men who want to help men and make the world a better place for all, its just a bunch of men who want to hate on women with other men who feel the same way.
Feminists and MRAs could work together by simply saying “hey, men have these problems, and women have those problems, how can we solve all these problems to benefit us all?”
Doubt that will ever happen though. Don’t even get me started on the homophobia either. Not one word on all the recent male teen suicides.