Here’s the bravely anonymous alpha blogger behind “Danger & Play ~ An online magazine for alpha males” explaining “Why You Should Cheat on Your Girlfriend.” I’ve bolded my favorite bit:
Haters will tell you to, “Man up! Break up with your girlfriend if you’re not happy.” They are missing the point. You want to have your cake, and to eat it too. Steady, reliable pussy and the occasional strange is the best of all worlds.
Cheating is a lot of fun, and it’s something I highly recommend. It’s way more exhilarating than bungee jumping, and few things feel as good as banging your girlfriend on the same day you banged some strange.
Cheating keeps your game tight. The best way to regulate your girlfriend is knowing you can bang chicks as hot or hotter than your girl. Well, when you cheat, this isn’t hypothetical. It’s reality.
Somehow I’m guessing there’s a lot more “hypothetical” than “reality” going on in this guy’s posts.
You don’t want an exclusive relationship? Fine. There’s no law saying you have to be in one. You can date casually and non-exclusively. You can have an open or polyamorous relationship. There are a lot of people out there in relationships, yet happily fucking other people outside of them. They’re just above board with it.
But that’s not what’s going on with our PUA friend here. With his talk about “regulat[ing]” girlfriends, he seems more interested in fucking over his girlfriend (assuming such a creature really exists) than he is in fucking strangers (sorry, “stranges”).
That’s not “Game.” That’s just being a dick.
But, hey, Nietzsche! He’s BEYOND GOOD AND EVIL! Or, as he puts it in a comment, “Shame and guilt are beta.”
You know, if you have to go around telling everyone what an Nietzschean ubermensch you are, you’re probably aren’t much of a Nietzschean ubermensch.
There’s nothing inherently wrong with either. That is unless they’re targeting potential partners based on said partners’ level of inebriation, in which case they’re both rapey scumbags.
NWO doesn’t believe in enthusiastic consent because he believes all women are whores. He literally has nothing of value or interest to add in these kinds of discussions.
Brandon, I have a question. In your hypothetical about videotaping to verify the consent of a sexual encounter to counter a potential claim of rape, is it the entirety of the sex act that is recorded, or just the beginning?
@ Brandon,
Do you consider what’s being talked about in this video to be rape?
/facepalm
The shits and giggles part was the beginning of the next sentence, Brandon. It was intended to introduce one possible scenario in which the videotaping could happen. It’s important to read all the way to the end of the sentence before you reply 😀
Brandon’s reasoning reminds me more and more like a small child or a puppy. If I don’t get caught, it isn’t wrong! He is either epically trolling us (in which case, I am in awe of your aptitude for commitment), or a seriously disturbed individual.
How else can you explain the complete lack of understanding of “Breaking the law and violating someone’s trust and consent is not excused by the vague possibility of that someone’s breaking of the law.”
Brandon, you seem to be ignoring me, but whatevs. One last question. Do you think you could successfully convince someone you have video taped illegally, were they to find out somehow, that you were justified in doing so?
1) Yes, I totally believe you will do that, Oh Super Ethical Brandon.
2) Comparatively, I’d be less worried about them “falling into the wrong hands” and more worried about you getting pissed off at me and using them as leverage, if it were me.
Damn, if it’s this bad, why haven’t *I* been falsely accused of rape yet? I have sex with women! And I’ve pegged men, which you’d think would put them in a vulnerable position. Does my pussy protect me?
Blockquote fail, can you fix David?
@Elizabeth: It is doubtful that Ashley would find anything. I work in IT, so I know how to secure my files. She has her own laptop so I don’t let her use my computer (since I depend on it for side work and can’t afford to have it go down…and she downloads a lot of crappy applications).
@Dracula: I will take my chances.
@Quakers: Yes, and that investigation costs money and requires me to invest my time and energy into something that is full of shit. By falsely accusing me, she is wasting my time. So I don’t really give a shit about her.
I do establish consent before hand. If she says no or pushes back in anyway, I get up and do something else (get a drink, start making a snack, sit on the couch and watch a movie)
@Improbable Joe
“The whole point of PUAs and “game” is about being dishonest with your partners”
I thought the point of PUAs was to fuck as many women as possible. So if a PUA sweet talks a girl into bed, even if she’s drunk, so what? Was she forced into getting drunk? Free will.
What? She wasn’t fully cognizant at the time?
If a drunk women purposely smashes a store window, does she get to sue the store owner?
If she purposely robs someone drunk, can she jail them?
If she purposely assaults someone while drunk can she take them to court for violating her rights.
How about if someone suggested doing any of these things? Could she sue, jail or take any of those people to court? I don’t think so. Well, the same goes for sex. Grow up.
Everyone here tells me women are strong, independent, empowered with sexual agency. Well, which is it? Are you only strong and independent when it suits you? Do you need to be coddled when that need suits you? You’re either equal or you’re not, make up your collective mind.
“It is doubtful that Ashley would find anything. I work in IT, so I know how to secure my files.”
Wow, this just got a whole lot creepier. I thought we were talking about entirely hypothetical secret sex videos, until you said that. That poor woman; I hope she gets away from you and out of the relationship.
@Nobinayamu
“NWO doesn’t believe in enthusiastic consent because he believes all women are whores. He literally has nothing of value or interest to add in these kinds of discussions.”
You praise the slutwalkers, not me.
You’re against slut-shaming, not me.
You praise the Ozy, Holly, Molly and all the rest of the slutdom blogs, not me.
You promote all women being whores, not me.
Continuing text messaging girls and keeping her responses acts as further proof that it was consentual. If I texted her “I really enjoyed last night” and she said “ya me too”. Then that is further proof of what the film already said.”
No it isn’t. Lots of rape victims sometimes try to pretend nothing happened b/c they are either ashamed or feel guilty, as if they did something wrong, and are in shock and follow the societal narrative that you should say everything is okay. I did that. : And I did that when my rapist texted me that he enjoyed last night… I had no idea what to do. In fact it made me even more worried that it was all just me, since he didn’t act like he did nething wrong… maybe he just didn’t know and I lead him on….and… I dunno… I worried what would happen if I ignored him, I was scared that I was being a horrible person or he’d be so angry if I did.. he knows where I live, we’re in the same social circle.. so I pretended things were fine b/c I didn’t know what to do and I wasn’t able to sleep nemore, and I was … traumatized…
The woman in the first Ben Roethlisberger complaint who is suing him in civil court, also texted her friend that weekend saying she had a good weekend. And during that time, my friend said that that proved she wasn’t raped. I said that I don’t know what happened, but that doesn’t prove anything. I showed him a LJ post I wrote the day after what happened to me, saying that I had a good time also, b/c all of my friends knew I was going to his house, and that they had been encouraging me b/c they wanted me to be happy, and I was excited… and after it happened, I was so numb and confused, and all I could think of is how horrible I’d be to let everybody down and say that something bad happened…. and after all, I had written down and even IMed them from his house saying how great things were going (this was right before it happened obv)… who would believe me? Maybe it’s just all in my imagination… maybe it’s all my fault…. maybe I asked for it…
@Null: And there is the kicker…you wouldn’t want me to have leverage over her. And by leverage…I mean “Can actually prove she is full of shit when she said ‘He raped me!'”.
@Elizabeth: For one, if the cops are looking for weed, they can’t take anything that isn’t weed or looks like weed. A flash drive doesn’t look like weed.
Also, all my data is automatically encrypted via TrueCrypt
@PFKAE: So, if Brandon were hypothetically accused of rape, and he tried used evidence he obtained illegally, with no probable cause, evidence that could be used to convict him of a separate crime, would it be admissible in court in that particular case, do you think?
I doubt you are as awesome as you say you are Brandon, very few IT people are that good. I also think she would have the sense to take it to someone else to look at it…like say the local police department.
We’re talking about being drunk to the point of incapacitation. Drunk to the point where she can’t stand up straight. Drunk to the point that she doesn’t know where she is or what’s going on.
Do you really think it’s alright to have sex with someone in that state?
“You praise the Ozy, Holly, Molly and all the rest of the slutdom blogs, not me.”
You know why, NWOslave? It’s cuz we never have to secretly videotape our partners or want to have sex with underage children!
You praise the slutwalkers, not me.
You’re against slut-shaming, not me.
You praise the Ozy, Holly, Molly and all the rest of the slutdom blogs, not me.
You promote all women being whores, not me.
What do you believe you should be praised for? o:
I haven’t had sex. Ppl praise me for being AWESOME still. 😀 Somehow I don’t think that has nething to do w/ why ppl don’t praise you XD
“…tried [to use]…”
Brandon, do you think it’s possible for someone to consent to sex?
No, I don’t want you to have leverage over her. And by leverage, I mean “You better (suck my dick/shut your mouth/stay with me), bitch, or I’ll send my secret sex videos to your mother.”
Allow me to laugh at you. HAHAHAHAHA
Good luck with that. HAHAHAHAHAHA
@Improbable Joe,
Actually, not that easy, because the key is “if you are close to them in hotness.” I have pretty severe kyphosis, such that pictures work against me unless I am there in person in the flesh to display humor, personality, and masculinity via PUA. In contrast, I am told I have a somewhat handsome face, I’d say about 1 in 50 women I approach in an ostensibly social event is attracted enough to continue the conversation. I don’t think most people who criticize PUA understand the amount of work involved when one does all the approaching, and how clearly mainstream society labels this as male work. Of course, a lot of what I do isn’t recognizable as PUA because it isn’t this blog’s parody of ca. 2004 Mystery Method, all negs and challenges and put-downs. This is pretty much “No True Scotsman”, but some of us aren’t Bonnie Prince Charlie at all.