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Feminism or death?

Here’s the entirety of a recent post by an MRA who calls himself Snark:

Uh, dude, I think you’ve confused “feminists” with “Daleks.”

Our new friend Fidelbogen thought this was such a brilliant idea he devoted a post to it himself, declaring:

Such economy, such concision. …

Really now, we wouldn’t go far wrong to make our rhetoric revolve around this above all, and very little more. The saying is deceptively simple, for it goes deep and reaches into many corners.

It puts them on the spot, and nails them there.

I knew Fidelbogen was a bit of a pompous doofus, but this is a whole new level of stupidity for him. I don’t even know what to say about something this idiotic.

Also, check out the comments to Snark’s piece. There’s something about potatoes you kind of have to see to believe.

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Happy Anti-MRA
Happy Anti-MRA
13 years ago

No-one has commented on the latest MRA “triumph”. Over at avoiceformen’s website, they are gloriously announcing the media storm about their register-her.com website.

Just for jolly, I went to Google news and typed in “register-her.com”. To make sure I wasn’t missing anything, I also typed in “Paul Elam” and “avoiceformen”.

I’d urge all manboobz readers to do the same – it will brighten up your day!

Compare and contrast this with the reaction on AVFM’s comments section.

Truly, the MRM is the comedic gift that keeps on giving.

Extra potatoes all round!

blitzgal
13 years ago

Lovely website. They quote the fictitious “40% of all rapes are false allegations” line, but then when I follow one of their citations, I find:

http://www.theforensicexaminer.com/archive/spring09/15/

A certain percentage of rape complaints are classified as “unfounded” by the police and excluded from the FBI’s statistics. For example, in 1995, 8% of all forcible rape cases were closed as unfounded, as were 15% in 1996 (Greenfeld, 1997). According to the FBI, a report should only be considered unfounded when investigation revealed that the elements of the crime were not met or the report was “false” (which is not defined) (FBI, 2007).

This statistic is almost meaningless, as many of the jurisdictions from which the FBI collects data on crime use different definitions of, or criteria for, “unfounded.” That is, a report of rape might be classified as unfounded (rather than as forcible rape) if the alleged victim did not try to fight off the suspect, if the alleged perpetrator did not use physical force or a weapon of some sort, if the alleged victim did not sustain any physical injuries, or if the alleged victim and the accused had a prior sexual relationship. Similarly, a report might be deemed unfounded if there is no physical evidence or too many inconsistencies between the accuser’s statement and what evidence does exist. As such, although some unfounded cases of rape may be false or fabricated, not all unfounded cases are false.

They should read their own source material before linking it, since it actually proves that they’re full of shit.

blitzgal
13 years ago

Also, the 40% stat comes from one study of one town’s rape cases, totaling 109 cases.

Hengist
Hengist
13 years ago

“I’d urge all manboobz readers to do the same – it will brighten up your day!”

It really did, though probably not for the reasons you hoped…

AbsintheDexterous
13 years ago

They should read their own source material before linking it, since it actually proves that they’re full of shit.

Oh, no, no, no! You’re not actually supposed to read the source material! You just should be aware that there’s a source that proves it and then move on with your day, because manly men have too much to do like hot potato torture and hunt mammoths to just read the source material. Don’t you know that how right you are is measured by amount of links you can post, even if you don’t read them?

Holly Pervocracy
Holly Pervocracy
13 years ago

Hengist – So you enjoy weird quasi-sexual fantasies about women being subjected to unsettlingly specific torture?

Despite the tremendous damage it does to the already hilariously thin “we’re not against women, we’re just for men!” facade?

Hengist
Hengist
13 years ago

Hengist – So you enjoy weird quasi-sexual fantasies about women being subjected to unsettlingly specific torture?

I do like that they’ve created a site which brings to light female sex offenders and false rape accusers whose deeds are often minimized by the media and the justice system despite their very real and damaging effects, as well as the people who enable and encourage this culture.

The thing you’re referring to was an entirely different post which had nothing to do with register-her.com, and was meant as a joke, unless you believe disgruntled men are building hot-potato guns in their basements right now. Funny how feminists have no problem resorting to hyperbole and sarcasm when attacking others, but when subjected to those same things, they suddenly lose all capacity to understand them.

Holly Pervocracy
Holly Pervocracy
13 years ago

Funny how feminists have no problem resorting to hyperbole and sarcasm when attacking others, but when subjected to those same things, they suddenly lose all capacity to understand them.

I do think that it was a “joke” in the sense that he doesn’t intend to actually do it (for one thing, the irregular shape of potatoes means the cannon would probably throw unpredictable wobblers or jam altogether), but in no others.

I also have to point out that feminists, despite the “well everyone knows they’re just as bad as us” common wisdom in the MRM, actually don’t share violent revenge fantasies about their political opponents all that often. (Yes, I’m sure you can find one. Oh hi there, That One “Dear Men” Essay, haven’t seen you around in several minutes. But you can’t find them on a “must be Thursday” basis, that’s for damn sure.)

Holly Pervocracy
Holly Pervocracy
13 years ago

I do like that they’ve created a site which brings to light female sex offenders and false rape accusers whose deeds are often minimized by the media and the justice system despite their very real and damaging effects, as well as the people who enable and encourage this culture.
I guess you WOULD like a site that:
A) Randomly includes people who have committed no crime other than “we don’t like them and they’re poopyheads”

and

B) Includes lots of women who actually weren’t proven to be false accusers, which means that it’s exposing and advocating harassment of rape victims because they were suspected of lying.

Seriously, how would you like it if someone started “register-him.com” and made a big messy list of actual sex offenders, suspected sex offenders who weren’t actually convicted, suspected sex offenders who weren’t even charged and are chosen just on the basis that they might be sex offenders, and a bunch of MRA leaders who “well, they’re like sex offenders, haw haw!” With photos and personal information?

(Don’t say “yeah, feminists would do that.” Even if we would, you’d hate it. And I don’t blame you. It’s a hateful, stupid, dangerous, fucking vile thing to do.)

Hershele Ostropoler
13 years ago

shaenon:

like reading the class notes in the University of Assholes alumni magazine.

Totally stealing this.

Holly:

It’s possible to disagree with, even dislike, someone, and still not potato-torture dislike them.

…you’re supposed to learn that in kindergarten.

That’s where they start the process of brainwashing men into being manginas who don’t rape people, right?

Fatman:

Yes, as a feminist, I recognize the right to existence of people who are not feminists. I do not understand how stating that puts me on the spot, nor how that statement nails me to that spot.

Leo may be half-right about this. The conversation is supposed to go
MRA: Do you support the right of non-feminists to exist?
FEMINIST: Well, I’m not advocating putting them in prisons or death camps, so yes
MRA: And yet you’re trying to convince people to become feminists, you hypocrite!

Or they’re more delusional than I realize. I suspect I have now thought longer and harder about it than everyone on the thread David linked to combined.

kmcakes:

I keep trying to figure out who Fidelbogen reminds me of with his laughably trying-waaaay-too-hard-to-be-pretentious buffoonery. Then it dawned on me. He’s totally Ignatius from the book “A Confederacy of Dunces”.

A bunch of them are like that. Samuel too, I think

Shora:

Seriously, the only people who would look at a question like this an say “Ooooh, that will put them on the spot!” are the kind of people who feel put on the spot when asked if they disagree with violence and murder.

Like redlocker said, show me the MRA who can unequivocally condemn Marc Lépine or George Sodini with no hedging or justification.

vacuumslayer
13 years ago

OMG, you feminazis are so SCREWED!!! They totally GOT you with this one!!! These guys are playing fucking 11-dimensional chess and you’re just brushing your My Little Pony tails and manes.

Feminism is now OVER FOREVER!!!ONE11!

Bostonian
Bostonian
13 years ago

I am certain that one of the core values of the MRM is violence, which is why they refuse to condemn even the most egregious examples of it. To even say any kind of violence is wrong is to violate one of their core principles. Unless, of course, it is the rarest kind of violence, women on men, then they are baying hounds for justice.

Holly Pervocracy
Holly Pervocracy
13 years ago

Bostonian – Baying hounds for justice, or for violence in the “correct” direction?

Some of the MRA reactions to woman-on-man violence are “I hope she’s arrested, convicted in a court of law and serves a prison sentence!”, but… not all of them.

Bostonian
Bostonian
13 years ago

Indeed, I should have included that as well.

Bostonian
Bostonian
13 years ago

Actually, if you want to shut up an MRA in real life, ask him if he disapproves of violence. He will refuse to answer.

Hengist
Hengist
13 years ago

“A) Randomly includes people who have committed no crime other than “we don’t like them and they’re poopyheads”

Which ones are those?

B) Includes lots of women who actually weren’t proven to be false accusers, which means that it’s exposing and advocating harassment of rape victims because they were suspected of lying.

Funny how the feminists were eager to jump on the “guilty” bandwagon in cases like Duke or Dominique Strauss-Kahn, though. Double standards anyone?

Seriously, how would you like it if someone started “register-him.com” and made a big messy list of actual sex offenders, suspected sex offenders who weren’t actually convicted, suspected sex offenders who weren’t even charged and are chosen just on the basis that they might be sex offenders, and a bunch of MRA leaders who “well, they’re like sex offenders, haw haw!” With photos and personal information?

Don’t they already have those, AKA dontdatehimgirl.com and its ilk?

Amused
Amused
13 years ago

Which ones are those?

Mary Kellet? Just off the top of my head.

Amused
Amused
13 years ago

Funny how the feminists were eager to jump on the “guilty” bandwagon in cases like Duke or Dominique Strauss-Kahn, though. Double standards anyone?

From what I’ve seen, it’s not that feminists jump on the “guilty” bandwagon, rather than “even black strippers and hotel maids shouldn’t be raped; also French millionaires are not above the law; and if a rape occurred, it’s the responsibility of the rapist, not the raped” bandwagon. Funny how you MRA’s just don’t comprehend that — or realize how hypocritical you are being when you address rape accusations not on facts but on the idea that the definition of rape should be narrowed so as to practically legalize it, and all women are dirty dirty liars and whores who deserve it, anyway.

Pecunium
13 years ago

Holly Some of the MRA reactions to woman-on-man violence are “I hope she’s arrested, convicted in a court of law and serves a prison sentence!”, but… not all of them.

Don’t forget that some types of “state sanctioned violence” would be ok; if they punished women more severely than they would punish men.

Make a rape complaint that fails to get a conviction and the woman is supposed to be sentenced to the maximum possible sentence the accused man could have gotten.

But for trivial things like murder, the witnesses and accusers aren’t to be punished if the jury decides to acquit, and even in the case of outright perjury a fine and jail is the most anyone should have to serve.

Because nothing is more heinous than to have a charged with rape, and then acquitted, while the lying bitch gets off scot free.

Hengist
Hengist
13 years ago

Mary Kellet? Just off the top of my head.

…”She has distinguished herself by prosecuting numerous cases of rape and domestic violence against men within her community based on no evidence, suppressing exculpatory evidence, and in 2011 – apparently participating in witness tampering.

Doesn’t say she committed a crime… only helped others.

From what I’ve seen, it’s not that feminists jump on the “guilty” bandwagon, rather than “even black strippers and hotel maids shouldn’t be raped; also French millionaires are not above the law; and if a rape occurred, it’s the responsibility of the rapist, not the raped” bandwagon.

Now you’re just muddying the issue. Do I really have to recall Amanda Marcotte’s reaction to the Duke case, which was subsequently taken down? The point is that feminists automatically assume a man accused of rape is guilty and treat him as such, sometimes even after he’s exonerated, while false rape accusers are always given the benefit of the doubt. Do you deny this?

Hengist
Hengist
13 years ago

Make a rape complaint that fails to get a conviction and the woman is supposed to be sentenced to the maximum possible sentence the accused man could have gotten.

I actually don’t agree with this. She should be charged with perjury if the complaint was made maliciously, otherwise (mistaken identity etc) just compensate the man.

Because nothing is more heinous than to have a charged with rape, and then acquitted, while the lying bitch gets off scot free.

I wonder if you’d maintain the same cavalier attitude if you had your career and life ruined by a false rape accusation, where even after you were acquitted some people still believed you did it and your ‘reputation’ preceded you everywhere.

Amused
Amused
13 years ago

She has distinguished herself by prosecuting numerous cases of rape and domestic violence against men within her community based on no evidence, suppressing exculpatory evidence, and in 2011 – apparently participating in witness tampering.

That is itself a lie, that comes from an MRA blog. Which illustrates the point: they are simply harassing and tarnishing someone they don’t like, making shit up about her. By the way: the case over which MRA’s are saying she should be disbarred is one where the appellate court specifically found that there was sufficient evidence for the jury to find the defendant guilty.

Now you’re just muddying the issue. Do I really have to recall Amanda Marcotte’s reaction to the Duke case, which was subsequently taken down? The point is that feminists automatically assume a man accused of rape is guilty and treat him as such, sometimes even after he’s exonerated, while false rape accusers are always given the benefit of the doubt. Do you deny this?

Yes, I do deny this. Not automatically assuming that the victim is a liar or deserved to get raped isn’t tantamount to assume that the accused is guilty. Moreover, believing that the accused did it is not the same as claiming that there is legally sufficient evidence to hold him criminally liable. I know this is a distinction that MRA’s ignore, but then, MRA’s aren’t the brightest knife in the drawer (nor are they ever honest).

Amused
Amused
13 years ago

Hengist: People who did it are frequently acquitted, so there is nothing wrong with “some people” believing that you are a rapist. You are not entitled to a universally positive public opinion of you. Lots of people despise me for being a woman and a Jew; I don’t go around demanding that they should be jailed or executed.

Holly Pervocracy
Holly Pervocracy
13 years ago

I knew notorious feminist stronghold dontdatehimgirl would come up!

But you think that’s a bad thing, right? You hate it, right? You think it’s totally unfair for private citizens to be exposing people who weren’t convicted of crimes to ridicule and possible harassment?

So why is it any fucking better when you guys do it?

Unless you think dontdatehimgirl is a super spiffy idea (and I don’t, for the record) shouldn’t you be arguing that nobody should be compiling public hit lists “registries” on people they don’t like?

shaenon
13 years ago

Obviously I’d like everyone to be a feminist, same as I’d like everyone to be anti-racist, gay-friendly, tolerant of other religious beliefs, cool to handicapped people, etc. But I’m aware that bigots exist, they have the right to believe whatever they want as long as they don’t physically attack the objects of their hate, and my opinion of them has zero bearing on their lives. So, yeah, I guess I recognize the right to existence of people who are not feminists.

There’s a weird magical thinking here, isn’t there? Like if I didn’t recognize someone’s “right to existence,” they’d wink out of sight and rematerialize in the Fringe universe or something.