Well, this explains a few things:
Narcissistic Heterosexual Men Target Their Hostility Primarily at Heterosexual Women, the Objects of Their Desires, Study Finds
ScienceDaily (July 29, 2010) — Heterosexual women bear the brunt of narcissistic heterosexual men’s hostility, while heterosexual men, gay men and lesbian women provoke a softer reaction, according to psychologist Dr. Scott Keiller from Kent State University at Tuscarawas. This is likely to be due to women’s unparalleled potential for gratifying, or frustrating, men’s narcissism, the author concludes. They are crucial players and even gatekeepers in men’s quests for sexual pleasure, patriarchal power and status.
More here. The actual study here (subscribers only).
Yes, like a lot of psych studies, it was based on a relatively small sample of college students (104 undergraduate men, to be exact). But after this post yesterday – and, you know, the entire content of this blog — it’s hard not to think that Keiller is on to something.
So, what, you’re BFFs with Random Brother now? I guess that figures.
random brother wont accept that bff-hood exists until you can show it in a statistically significant population dictated by COMMON SENSE
There is a lot of evidence for his argument. For example: this dress that prevents rape. If clothing had nothing to do with rape, why would there be inventors working on rape preventing clothing?
Also, if clothing was irrelevant to rape, why would there be fashion designers who are rapists? Our clothes are being designed by men who want to rape women, and guess what, those clothes are the very clothes Random Brother was warning you against!
Do I have to break it down further, or is “wearing clothing made by rapists encourages rapists” direct enough logic for you people?
Unlike feminists, men do not deny the truth. We hold each other responsible, and we don’t cry about “victim blaming” when we’re told what to avoid doing and wearing to reduce our risk of being falsely accused of rape. While feminists cry about being told not to wear a strapless top, men understand that wearing a football jersey raises your chances dramatically of being seen as an easy target by false accusers.
Don’t want to be “victim blamed”, take responsibility and you won’t have to worry.
Do I have to break it down further, or is “wearing clothing made by rapists encourages rapists” direct enough logic for you people?
no… thats what’s called a statement. you see, logic involves multiple statements tied together, so you can get from those statements to some sort of conclusion. what you have is something you say over and over and over again and then you bleat bleat bleat that we dont take it on faith that youre right.
dont want to be called out on being a clown, brush up on your thinkskills and it wont be pointed out that your a dumb whiny crybaby.
Rapists design clothing that appeals to them. Women are wearing that clothing and being raped. Guess who is raping them? Rapists.
I understand this. Random Brother understands this. Most of society (except feminists) understand this.
But you seem to have trouble following?
I’ll repeat.
Rapists design clothing they like.
Women are wearing this clothing.
Women are being raped.
Rapists are the ones raping them.
This is like talking to children.
got it. all the rapists are in the fashion industry. that makes total fucking sense, whinelord.
@Captain Bathrobe
“How many times do feminists have to say “patriarchy hurts everyone”
The patriarchy we live in is built by women law by law. Women cry to Big Daddy for their every need, they employ the violence of Big Daddy when it suits them. AA, Title IX, Divorce, Quotas, Retraining orders. If education or employment competiton is too difficult women go tho their patriarchy. Big Daddy give me this and Big Daddy says, “yes, we’ll make laws together!” Women say I want child custody but he still has to pay. Big Daddy of the patriarchy says, “yes, we’ll make laws together!” Women say he was mean to me use violence to punish him. Big Daddy says, “yes, we’ll make laws together!” This is what you’ve traded in your husbands for.
Heres a quota.
http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2011/aug/2/men-need-not-apply/?page=all#pagebreak
Only women can bid on a job for Big Daddy in the patriarchy.
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@Nobinayamu
“And I have a problem with the idea that we live in a culture in which false accusations of rape are so prevalent, taken so seriously, and result in so many cases of erroneous imprisonment of innocent men, that every time the subject of rape is discussed someone is throwing a link to the False Rape Society in my face. Tell me, how would men’s behavior change if we lived in a culture where false rape accusations were: 1) standard, the norm, ubiquitous and 2) had even a 50% conviction rate? If false rape accusations are such a problem, why haven’t men begun a campaign to take these steps?”
We do live in a culture where false accusations are the norm. Men have tried to obtain the smallest of common decency by having anonymity. Women screamed to Big Daddy of their patriarchy, “we want all men slandered on a womans word!” Big Daddy said, “come, we will make laws together!”
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@Pecunium
“I wonder what it is which makes RB and NWO, and Marc, and I forget all the rest who go on about this, so afraid of being charged with rape that they see it as something which has to be horrifically dangerous to bring a complaint for.”
Stories of men being beaten and killed after a woman falsely cries rape and urges other men to avenge her appear with disturbing regularity. Men lose their employment at the mere accusation of rape. It’s extremely rare a woman suffers any punishment for falsely accusing a man yet his life will be ruined. A woman can refuse testing or sex can be consensual and claim rape, she can be completely unharmed and her claim of rape makes her a victim, therefore guilt is assumed.
Revenge, excuses like cheating, attention, child custody; Women can use the violence of Big Daddy for any reason. Since a womans word is the evidence, the evidence is incontrovertible. Women use the violence of the patriarchy they have created.
I did not say that “all the rapists are in the fashion industry”. Nice strawman. Is this what passes as “debate” in the feminist community now?
No, not ALL rapists are in the fashion industry, but some are, and many fashion designers have similar mindsets as rapists:
http://profetcetera.tumblr.com/post/4167850555
Is it then any surprise that the clothing women wear and that feminists lobby and campaign for women to wear, is encouraging rapists to rape them when the clothing is being designed by men of similar mindsets?
im not strawmanning you i dont care about your dumb babby conspiracy theories.
but seriously do you have any more incoherent tumblr quotes for me because thats totally a thing that proves your point. in double backwards idiot land.
yo owlslave if you want people to take you seriously you should probably not quote the washington times as a source of facts
@Sharculese
Perhaps feministe?
amira in case you need a diagram what im trying to say is that like 90+% you seem unduly concerned with promulgating some convoluted conspiracy theory to prove that nothing is your fault ever at the same time you want to lecture everyone else about responsibility.
hop down off your high horse, you dont look like much of a rider.
owlslave all i said is that the washington times is a pretend newspaper. dont change the subject.
We do live in a culture where false accusations are the norm.
What does “norm” mean? 😀 How normal is it?
Stories of men being beaten and killed after a woman falsely cries rape and urges other men to avenge her appear with disturbing regularity.
What’s “disturbing regularity”? o: Obviously, everybody here is against vigilante justice, and they don’t agree w/ ppl being beaten and killed. Where are the stats that this is happening “regularly” though? o:
And why would that even be necessary if men are being convicted at a 100% rate on a woman’s word?
What do you think the rape conviction rate SHOULD be if we did not have a feminist run court system? :3
“Stories of men being beaten and killed after a woman falsely cries rape and urges other men to avenge her appear with disturbing regularity.”
They do? I’ve never personally seen or heard of one in my 35 years on this planet.
@Sharculese It’s rich that we get accused of being conspiracy theorists when feminists are the biggest conspiracy theorists of all. What else would you call the “patriarchy”? What else would you call a theory that would require every single man to have to get secret messages from some unknown source that tells them how to “oppress” women?
And now it’s been expanded into a “kyriarchy” to add whites and straights into the conspiracy. Yes ladies, it’s alllll a big plan to get you. I’m writing to my straight white male overlords right now asking advice on how many black gay women I should rape tomorrow.
And you call US conspiracy theorists.
That’s because most of the time, the media and the police try to hide the reasons behind gang beatings and murders. Men would never harm each other if it were not for women.
yeah, i guess if we left it up to you to define patriarchy in the way that most offended your fragile sensibilities it would probably be a bad thing. fortunately it has nothing to do with the definition you made up to make yourself feel like a poor put upon victim.
oh, future tip, brah: im a straight white dude too, so adjust your bedwetting rhetoric to account for that fact, maybe?
ps:
And you call US conspiracy theorists.
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the media and the police try to hide the reasons behind gang beatings and murders
yes. youre a conspiracy theorist. buck up and deal with it.
Thank you for proving me right, Sharculese, although I didn’t expect anybody here to do it so soon! Your entire post on 11 Aug at 8:32 illustrates my point perfectly. A real woman loves a man for what and whom he is, a feminist is always trying to ‘improve” him; always trying to tell him how HE should change, always telling him where HE is supposedly wrong…
Your entire post–as well as many others from other feminists like yourselves–is one long laundry list of my faults, my shortcomings, how I “ought to” or “should” see feminists like you, and calling my preferences “juvenile” along with you denouncing my focusing on real and permanent differences between women and feminists as so-called “word games”, shows women like you to be nothing but demanding, hostile, and bitter shrews, who won’t ever have a real man in your lives, and will have to settle for manboobz.com type housepets.
Once again, why don’t YOU accursed feminists change (for a change)?? We men have done enough changing, largely at your behest, for the next ten thousand years, and it is time for the shoe to be on the other foot! Sharculese, turn yourself into a woman that a man could love, and lead by example to help the other pathetic and dysfunctional females on the ‘net.
We all will be much happier and healthier, families will once again become the focus and foundation of society, and everyone, especially women and children will be better off!
As far as the other post from one ‘darksidecat’ at 8:33 August 11–I don’t know where you got any ideas about slavery, but they have nothing to do with my preferred kind of woman! It is feminists, who are trying to enslave us all with their insane demands and lawyering…
The difference between my ideal relationships with real women and slavery should be self-evident, but for your benefit, and the benfit of those feminist housepets like you, who want to parrot the bitch lobby on manboobz.com, I shall elucidate where you have totally missed the boat!
Slaves are forced to obey their masters, women (at their best) cooperate and comply with their menfolk because it is in their interest to do so. Slaves are kept in chains by terror, real women WANT to express their womanhood as an expression of love for the man in their lives. I could go on, but I think that I have made my point!
Maybe you were drunk when you wrote your post! Have some strong coffee, go back to bed, sleep off your hangover and discuss the benefits of real women when you are feeling better!
PEACE AND FREEDOM!!
David K. Meller
dkm could you maybe not have posted that rant about me being a bitter shrew right under the post wher i said i was a straight white dude.
im bored with you. if i call you a racist again will you flip the fuck out and storm out like last time.
lets try it: dkm, youre a racist.
*crosses fingers*
ahahahaha gotcha
Sorry!!
You are what you show yourself to be! I’m sorry for the (understandable) mistake, but if somebody talks like a shrew, acts like a shrew, writes like a shrew, and tries to represent the points of view of the other feminist shrews on this website as his(?) own, what do you expect?
Got it, straight white dude?
Try being someone other than a feminist housepet, and people won’t make such mistakes any more about you!
PEACE AND FREEDOM!!
David K. Meller
DKM, I *do* do stuff to become a better partner. Like read books and blogs on communication, and have long talks with them so I know what we both want even when I would rather go hide under the sofa, and learn how to deal with drama like an adult, and hell, sometimes I even wear earrings!
But go back to a time when I couldn’t own a bank account or have my own career? Fuck off.
“RB: You reject common sense or at least a conclusion that I and most men believe to be common sense. You reject the police officers judgement. So it seems the only conclusion you’ll accept is one the one that you want.”
Uh, no, I’ll accept the conclusion that is best supported by the evidence. I won’t accept any conclusion that can’t substantiate itself more solidly than “It’s common sense”. Is this concept difficult for you?
“RB: If, I am wrong and a woman follows the suggestions I outlined before she looses next to nothing. Perhaps she looses some of her wardrobe.”
By placing hte responsibility on her, she has sacrificed any modicum of peace of mind in addition to her choices, all for your idiotic advice that isn’t remotely substantiated.
“In fact if clothing, body type, etc has nothing to do with a rapists attention but she would go ahead and follow my advice she still would be safer, she would be armed thus more able to protect herself and her family and likely more aware of her surroundings. ”
Do I feel like taking this argument apart, or do I feel like DFO…. DFO, definitely.
” And feminists don’t love men, they love obedient slaves too.
Your point?”
If that were true, I thought your goal was to be better than feminists?
I mean, it’s not. I’ve only ever fallen for my equals.
dkm its not that i was offended by your confusion (im kind a girly dude, its who i am) its just that i found it… stupid, i guess, and indicative of someone who doesnt think about what they say…
im not quite as sensitive to words as you are 😉
Random Brother, dude, seriously. You know what happens when hot women stop dressing like sluts? Fewer hot women dress like sluts! No more long legs in miniskirts or Daisy Dukes, no more cleavage, no more ass-showing-off pants, no more clingy tube tops that show every detail. Is this really the sort of world we want to live in? The sort of world we want for our children? The sort of world we want for ME? Please, someone, think of the Ozymandiases!
DKM, I’m a feminist and I’m not a demanding, harsh and bitter shrew. I’m actually really cheerful and perky and nice, and at least four men have found me worthy of love (which, given I’m nineteen, is pretty impressive). Do I get an exception?
Also, what specifically do you want me to do to become a “good woman”? I’d be surprised to find out I don’t already do it. 🙂