Good news, ladies and manginas: Apparently some MRAs don’t think it’s time to go out and start shooting people. At least not quite yet.
Some background: In recent days numerous MRAs have taken up the cause of a man named Thomas Ball – who burned himself to death outside a courthouse in Keane, New Hampshire in a protest against what he saw as unfair treatment in family court. Ferdinand Bardamu of In Male Fide has declared him “a martyr for the cause of men’s rights, a casualty of feminism’s stripping one half of the population of their humanity.”
Before killing himself, Ball wrote a long manifesto outlining his grievances and suggesting that the time had come for men “to start burning down police stations and courthouses,” describing the inhabitants of such buildings as “[c]ollaborators who are no different than the Vichy of France or the Quislings of Norway during the Second World War … So burn them out. “ (He offered specific advice on how best to do this, including tips on how to select the proper bottles to use for Molotov cocktails.)
All this has inspired some in the MRA to start talking ominously about violence. On The Spearhead, W.F. Price has responded to this talk with a piece suggesting that the time isn’t quite right for the MRAs of the world to take up armed struggle. Not just yet, anyway. As he puts it:
It is never a good idea to pick up a gun and start shooting to address some vaguely defined injustice — that is savagery. Before the American Revolution, for example, patriots took pains to spell out a long list of grievances that justified rebellion. …
We have to make our own lists, air our grievances, and give the state the opportunity to redress them. … Before anyone resorts to the same methods the state uses against us, we must put every reasonable effort into working with the law and the political system we have. Because this effort is still in its infancy, any calls for armed resistance are entirely premature and counterproductive, and shouldn’t be taken seriously.
Obviously, the flip side of this argument for delay is a justification for killing people if these “grievances” aren’t dealt with in the way that those in the MRA would like. Price’s reference to the American Revolution is an interesting one, because of course the central issue of that struggle was, you know, taxation without representation. The colonists couldn’t vote out the king if they didn’t like his policies. In case anyone has forgotten: we actually do have the vote now, which was kind of the whole point in the first place.
Of course, many of Price’s readers are a bit more impatient than he is. In a comment that drew (last I checked) more than 40 upvotes and only two dissenting downvote, Taqman took issue with Price’s call to delay the armed struggle:
Tell that to men who are facing imminent imprisonment for failure to pay child support.
They don’t have the luxury of time and can’t wait a couple of decades for the manginas of the world to wake up and decide that a gentlemanly form of armed resistance is now acceptable.
The ironically named Firepower, meanwhile, took a little swipe at Ball’s own actions, but didn’t challenge his advice for the rest of the men of the world:
What IS crazy is having to point out that setting YOURSELF on fire is a ridiculous way to “win” anything.
Set your enemies on fire. To even have to remind this questions the long term chances of victory for such a pathetic lot.
Jean Valjean suggested that political action was pointless — due to all those damned women who vote:
No amount of “stoic logic” will make politicians see our point of view.
Politicians are in the business of getting re-elected rather than the business of good governance. So long as women are the majority there will only be tyranny of the majority.
Peter-Andrew:Nolan(c) — you knew we were getting to him, right? — expressed his profound disappointment that more Spearheaders weren’t willing to embrace a violent solution:
Gee you guys are whimps and tiptoe around the ‘use of force’ like freaking ballet dancers. Are you so scared to speak about this when it is CLEAR the guvment LOVES using force against you and lots of other people too?
And he made the argument personal, explicitly denouncing, by name, the judge he claimed had “criminally abused” him with his rulings:
Judge [name redacted’s] life is now in my hands. He lives by my consent and my consent alone. …
And, like Ball, he declared judges to be essentially treasonous:
These judges pretended to be your servants. They are evil, evil people who deserve the kind of treatment reserved for those who commit treason.
There is more to Nolan’s comment(s) than that, but to get into it would require going down the rabbit-hole into his particular brand of crackpottery, which seems to involve him setting up his own courts to try judges he doesn’t like. (I frankly don’t understand his belief system and don’t care to.)
Now, it should be noted that a few Spearheaders actually objected to Nolan’s violent talk. But the last I checked, the comment I just quoted had more upvotes than downvotes. W.F. Price took more flak for suggesting men wait a little longer before taking up arms than Nolan did for, well, you saw what he wrote. That tells you a lot about The Spearhead, I think.
EDIT: Added quote from Ferdinand Bardamu; removed similar quote from The Spearhead.
Also Ami – I have card ideas on the How the other half lives thread 🙂
Eoghan, I love that you care so much about this man’s plight that you can’t even get his name right. This man’s name was Tom Ball.
Once the allegation of abuse had been leveled and investigate against Tom Ball, an allegation that he does not deny, did the system act correctly in ordering him to counseling?
Awesome post Sarah.
I really think manboobz blog goes off the deep end with the hate sometimes and it just goes to show how dehumanised men are by feminism at this state, that people will celebrate their deaths and think nothing of it. And this is “moderate” feminism.
TBH feminism frightens me.
I posted with her there recently
No one named “middle of the road” commented on my blog… but Eoghan did.
she was rejecting gender parity in domestic abuse
I don’t understand what you’re saying. If I don’t declare that domestic abuse is precisely 50-50 (which it’s factually not), I’m… making excuses for female abusers?
Yes, gender has a role in domestic abuse. No, I do not think men are all evil. No, I do not deny that women commit abuse.
Meh, I don’t have the energy to correct my typos.
Rise NWOmistress!
That’s a scary thought….
For multiple Eoghan cards, why not make a few cards that all have exactly the same mechanics, but with slightly different flavor texts and pictures?
So that IS Eoghan xD And here’s the thing, you’re basically defining it as “nebody who doesn’t argue w/ me or cave in that I’m right” as proof xD How DO you define that ppl are believing abuse is not gendered btw? Do you mean that they acknowledge male survivors and female abusers? Or that they believe it’s 50/50 in everything (severity, power dynamics, rate, etc) just cuz… in some mathematical vacuum it should be? xD
Multiple posters objected to celebrating Tom Ball’s death.
I really think manboobz blog goes off the deep end with the hate sometimes and it just goes to show how dehumanised men are by feminism at this state, that people will celebrate their deaths and think nothing of it. And this is “moderate” feminism.
WE HATEFULLY SAY THAT SOMETIMES WOMEN COMMIT ABUSE! WE HATEFULLY SAY THAT SOMETIMES MEN COMMIT ABUSE! WE HATEFULLY SAY THAT SUICIDE IS BAD!
HAAAAAAATTTTTEEEEEEE
Ami – totally agree. There’s this ‘how can a mother treat her children that way!’ thing and its counterpart ‘well, men *have needs* that they can’t control’/’men can’t be expected to look after kids properly cos they ain’t nurturers’ – both assumptions are messed up and hurt people. Grr.
@Victoria von Syrus That’s exactly what Kirby said I should do xDDDD
that people will celebrate their deaths and think nothing of it
You totally caught that post, right, when Fuck MRA said some pretty extreme shit, and then a bunch of people (feminists, even!) called her on it?
“Eoghan, I love that you care so much about this man’s plight that you can’t even get his name right. This man’s name was Tom Ball.”
My friends aren’t dancing on his grave.
“Once the allegation of abuse had been leveled and investigate against Tom Ball, an allegation that he does not deny, did the system act correctly in ordering him to counseling?””
Yes ordering counselling is the right approach IMO. Threatening his wife with taking the child however sounds very heavy handed.
And seriously, ONE person said celebratory things about Tom Ball’s death–and she immediately got told how wrong that was by all the other posters plus the moderator. Look at the first two pages; there’s only one person doing that.
See, in feminism, when someone says something hateful and offensive, we disagree with them. We tell them that we don’t want that kind of attitude representing us. We’re more interested in being decent humans than we are in enforcing ingroup/outgroup politics.
Also – wasn’t there only ONE person who argued that it was ok to call Ball kindling and everyone who responded said it was wrong…and no-one at any stage agreed with Fuck MRAs on the celebrating someone’s suicide front?
It occurs to me I’ve never ACTUALLY MET Eoghan xD He officially vanished right before I showed up posting (which could be suspicious.. maybe I’M Eoghan!) xD Since then he’s returned as various other incarnations, pretending not to be him, but I’ve never met the actual without the faux armor Eoghan xD
How can I ever be a true feminist warrior if I can’t cut my teeth w/ Eoghan!? XD
Ami – I have an idea for a card… you could have a MRA kitteh that mesmerises feminist opponents with its cuteness! 😉
I would also really like a card made about me…one of my other psudonyms is Little Red Riding Hood – I like that fairy tale rewrite where everyone thinks she is innocent and then she FUCKS YOU UP.
@Eoghan do you think feminism believes that in the future trans women will be oppressing and harvesting cis women for their reproductive organs? xD
@Lyn ooh… I have an idea for what to do with that :] kk I hav ea bit of a backlog but I’ll get to you! :3
Eoghan/lol/Well, well, well/middle of the road, give it up already. If you “meant” that putting the child to bed was the hands on parenting, it sure as hell didn’t read that way, for one thing. For another, you’ve taken the discussion off topic with no reason to do so other than to forward your misogynist agenda. The only thing entertaining about you is the fact that you think no one will notice it’s you when you post under a different name, even after people DO notice multiple times. You’re pathetic. So I have a suggestion for you: there is another misogynist who gets talked about on this blog a fair bit, and he also enjoys using sock puppet accounts. His name is Scott Adams; I’m sure the two of you will get along very well. Run along now.
MorEoghan: Why do you continue to lie? We’ve said that we agree are more likely to commit physical abuse.
We even explained why this was almost certainly going to be true (relative amounts of time in caregiving).
Why do you continue to say we don’t?
Now… show the link wherein that = a greater amount of false allegation (which you brought up). The question isn’t who abuses more, it’s who falsely accuses more.
And, just as you point out that rates of abuse are not the same from one gender to the other, so too is it possible the rates of false accusation are also not the same from gender to gender.
My friends aren’t dancing on his grave either. Other posters have already pointed out but only one person said anything celebratory about the death of Tom Ball and many, many posters disagreed. There was nothing in David’s original post that celebrated the death of Tom Ball. So your statement about manboobz “celebrating” his death is erroneous. Are you being purposefully misleading or, in your zealousness, did you really miss the fact that the majority of posters vehemently disagreed with celebrating this man’s death?
Now, you’ve avoided providing an answer to my question for almost three pages and have finally provided a partial answer. Thank you. Ordering a parent to counseling is an appropriate decision when an allegation of child abuse is leveled and proven. You’ve proven yourself adept a speculation. Why do you suppose Tom Ball refused to go to counseling?
“Multiple posters objected to celebrating Tom Ball’s death.”
Yeah, some celebrated it, the posts were not deleted last time I checked, it others objected, some were delighted to use him to slander the whole men’s movement.
The tolerance for slight mysogny is likely less than it is for dancing on Balls grave, things being the way they are on “moderate” feminist sites.
Holly, I think you’re alright, I’m not including you or anyone else that’s been civil to me here.
So basically he just said “feminists say XYZ, oh and Holly and other ppl who don’t, I’m not including any of you cuz you’re good not evil like feminists” xD
@Kirby:
Huh? I think i might be missing something here. (Or are you talking to the other Sarah! I don’t know.)
@Eoghan: Fuck you. The Manboobz commenters are mostly awesome and lovely and supportive! My comment was mostly directed at FuckMRAs and the general douchebaggery of people who hurt other people. (And elephants.)