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Are false rape accusations the fault of feminism?

Holly Pervocracy's SlutWalk sign, which apparently causes false rape accusations.

If you thought the “meat market” guy from a couple of days ago – you know, the one prattling on about the “market makers of pussy” —  was risibly wrongheaded, here’s an even more insidious attempt to reduce the complexities of human sexuality to a question of “supply and demand.” Over on The False Rape Society blog, Pierce Harlan has a new post with the title:

False rape claims: increasingly a tool to skew the current economies of sex, where sex is cheaper than most women prefer

As you might imagine, the post itself is based on some fairly twisty blame-the-victim logic – with some feminist-bashing thrown in for good measure. Let’s wade through the muck here.

According to Harlan, the “cultural tenets governing sexual encounters” have gone all loosey-goosey in recent years, due to birth control, a general loosening of sexual mores and “the feminist-inspired norms that pressure young women to ‘party like the guys.’”

I assume you have all read Mary Wollstonecraft’s classic A Vindication of the Rights of Women to Get Totally Wasted and Fuck Some Dudes.

But, alas, feminists totally don’t understand the law of supply and demand –and that in the market of sex, they are the supply and not the demand  (because it’s not like women ever really want to have sex themselves).  As a result, the feminist-inspired young women of today are totally flooding the market with cut-rate pussy.

As Harlan explains:

The experts tell us that men have a much easier time obtaining sex than they did in days long gone. …  Women who’d prefer to put a higher price tag on their sexuality are finding themselves locked out of the market.

The results are all too predictable.  Women are having sex more often when they secretly are conflicted about it. We’ve frequently reported here about the proven gender “regret asymmetry” where young women have much higher levels of after-the-fact regret than men following sexual hook-ups.  Regret too often is transmogrified into feelings of being used, and feeling used too often metamorphoses into a false rape claim.

Does Harlan have any evidence to back up this hypothesis? Yes. And it comes straight from his ass.

Having studied the false rape phenomenon closely for a number of years, it is my conclusion that young women are increasingly resorting to false rape claims as an inappropriate method of skewing the current economies of sex, which favors men and which makes sex cheaper than most women consciously or subconsciously prefer.

In other words: he has spent the last several years searching out news stories on false rape accusations to post on his blog. Because there are almost 7 billion people on planet earth, he has been able to find a fair number of such stories. So he’s concluded that there is some sort of “false rape epidemic” going on. In other words, his conclusion seems to be based almost entirely on what’s known as the “availability heuristic,” which, as Wikipedia puts it, “is a phenomenon (which can result in a cognitive bias) in which people predict the frequency of an event, or a proportion within a population, based on how easily an example can be brought to mind.”

Were I to start a blog entitled “The Dudes Peeing on Things You Shouldn’t Pee On Society,” guess what? I too could cite many examples, drawn from the newspapers of the world.  Were I to do this for several years, my brain would be stuffed full of stories of men urinating on just about anything that can be urinated on, from prayer rugs to cough drops.  This, through the power of the “availability heuristic,” might convince me that we faced an epidemic of inappropriately urinating men, and that this epidemic was getting worse by the hour. (I mean, before I started specifically looking for such stories I almost never heard about this terrible social ill.)

But back to Harlan and his argument, such as it is:

Women are pressured by feminist-inspired norms to make themselves more available to men than ever, but they have also learned that crying rape after-the-fact is a culturally accepted, indeed, feminist approved, antidote to sex they feel was too cheaply obtained.  Instead of saying “no” up front, they are retroactively saying “no” — with false rape claims — after-the-fact. And society has given this backward state of affairs its imprimatur.

One solution? Women need to stop having so much sex — for the sake of teh menz. Or as Harlan, still working the creaky economic metaphor, puts it:

One cure is to enhance the value of female sexuality by decreasing the supply and thereby reduce both regret and false rape claims.

But, darn it, this won’t work, because women are out there marching in the street for the right to, you know, have sex when they want to with consenting partners without being shamed for it.

That, of course, can never happen in a society where “slut walks” are celebrated as liberating events, where colleges excuse women from underage drinking charges so long as they report they were raped, and where false rape claims are routinely excused and implicitly encouraged. In short, it can never happen in a society that encourages young women to be promiscuous and to then tell rape lies when that promiscuity results in an unfavorable sexual experience.

Harlan ends his piece with a call to lock up false accusers for a long time.

Certainly malicious false accusers should be charged. Women who identify the wrong guy in a lineup? No.

And it would be nice if Harlan extended the sympathy he shows for falsely accused men to real victims of real rape, a much larger group of people than the falsely accused. But instead he writes pieces like this one, and links in his sidebar to a host of misogynist blogs that, among other things, routinely joke about female victims of rape and murder, that urge men on juries in rape trials to vote to acquit the accused even when he’s clearly guilty, that claim that age of consent laws are inherently man-hating, and that think it would be great if sex robots and artificial wombs rendered women obsolete.

Those actually interested in helping those falsely accused – rather than supporting Harlan’s retrograde agenda — would do better to support The Innocence Project, and to stop reading Harlan’s drivel.

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kirbywarp
kirbywarp
13 years ago

@NWO:

Then why else would you be here? It certainly wouldn’t be to convince us of anything, otherwise you’d be arguing an actual point. It couldn’t be because you want to hear what we have to say, you ignore 3/4s of our responses to you. The only thing that seems to drive you is the abuse. It doesn’t take much of a leap to think you enjoy it.

Also, Holly? Perhaps it might not be my place, but perhaps you should top NWO again? He seemed to enjoy your last bit, and he’s starting to get a bit antsy.

M Dubz
M Dubz
13 years ago

Back to OP, in my sexual history (which is admittedly relatively brief) the usual reason that I have had no-strings-attached sex was because I was not interested in dating a person that I was interested in having sex with. When I no longer desired to sleep with someone that I was not interested in also dating, I stopped having casual sex. I still managed to find boys willing to sleep with me in both situations. It’s almost like I had a choice as to what sort of sex I was willing to have! Even though it is (in my circle of friends) quite acceptable to have casual sex! Shocking!

aMiRA
aMiRA
13 years ago

@Kirbywarp My citation is reality. Sit in on a rape court case one day. You’ll see my sources.

kirbywarp
kirbywarp
13 years ago

@M Dubz:

It’s amazing what women are capable of if you don’t think they are capable of anything.

NWOslave
NWOslave
13 years ago

The patriarchy is always to blame Alex. Women were alwaye systematically oppressed by all men thruout all history. Oh how the men in the past must have laughed working long hours in dangerous jobs, sometimes losing limbs, sometimes dying. They must have quite the chuckle knowing their women, (property) were stuck in a cozy home they provided. History must be rewritten as womens oppression, just like the feminist constitution of 1971 states. Bad old patriarchy.

Spearhafoc
13 years ago

The patriarchy is always to blame Alex.

Why would the patriarchy blame Alex?

Nobinayamu
Nobinayamu
13 years ago

Hey aMiRA – I’m citing two circumstances under which I’ve seen men who promote the idea that most women are lying about rape, admit that rape happens. I’m citing these circumstances upfront, because I don’t want you raising the rhetoric of “violent rape,” or “stranger rape” when you answer my question.

While you get points for style, your little litany suggests that you don’t believe that any situation in which a woman says she was raped, and is the only witness, is really actually, factually raped. So I’m asking, again, outside of what MRAs believe are acceptable examples of rape – Are women ever raped?

Are women ever raped by their boyfriends?
Are women ever raped by men with whom they’ve been out on a date?
Are women ever raped by men who they thought were their friends?
Are women ever raped by men who are their co-workers?

For the record, I don’t believe that rape is around every corner. I just don’t believe that it never happens. And I leave my house just fine.

NWOslave
NWOslave
13 years ago

kirbywarp, you only have me and occasionally someone else to respond to, while I must answer all of your questions.

Also from now on I want citations from reputable sources that encompasses over 1/2 the worlds population. Surely you can’t expect me to just take your word for something?

Alex
13 years ago

Spearhafoc, I think I love you.

unintentionalfeminist
unintentionalfeminist
13 years ago

@Nobinayamu

A huge part of her philosophy seems to hinge on I how she pulled herself up by her bootstraps, so obviously sexism doesn’t exist. She managed to be the perfect business woman and the perfect wife and the perfect mother, and you should be too. But she had help, obviously she had help.

Nobinayamu
Nobinayamu
13 years ago

Of course NWO thinks prior to 1971 every woman was Donna-fucking-Reed; vacuuming in pearls and getting their nails done before their coal-mining husband came home from work.

Lyn
Lyn
13 years ago

aMiRA, as someone who has read quite a few transcripts of rape trials (in Australia and the US mainly)…women are faced with a LOT of suspicion when they try to make a rape charge stick.

See, for example: Susan Ehrlich’s *Representing Rape: Language and Sexual Consent* (2002)

NWOslave
NWOslave
13 years ago

So heres MY question.

If a woman has been proven and/or admitted to just flat out lying and falsely accusing a man of rape what should her punishment be?

Spearhafoc
13 years ago

kirbywarp, you only have me and occasionally someone else to respond to…

Hallelujah, he can understand vocative commas!

Maybe he’s capable of learning after all.

Pecunium
13 years ago

So basically you’re asking “outside of rape, are women ever raped?” So we see that only violent rape counts as rape to you.

Actual non-consent doesn’t equal rape?

Which means you are a rape apologist.

Lyn
Lyn
13 years ago

I think NWO’s comma was probably a typo 😉

Nobinayamu
Nobinayamu
13 years ago

@unintentionalfeminist

That’s why I think her daughter-in-law outing her is so hysterical. She reminds me of “I’m my kids’ mom” Schlessinger. Women with careers who make a lot of money telling other women that they’re terrible mothers for putting their children in daycare.

Alex
13 years ago

@Mr. Slave,

“Oh how the men in the past must have laughed working long hours in dangerous jobs, sometimes losing limbs, sometimes dying.”

I’ll have to ask my friend about her German grandmother who was forced to work the coal mines by the Russians (those evil Commies!). I can’t her grandmother directly because she’s, you know, kinda dead. Happens when you get heart and lung problem due to mining coal. But wait! That can’t have happened; she was a woman!

Victoria von Syrus
Victoria von Syrus
13 years ago

working long hours in dangerous jobs, sometimes losing limbs, sometimes dying.

What, like childbirth?

Okay, childbirth was not likely to leave women as amputees, but the maternal mortality rate in Days of Yore is outright shocking. And it’s quite possible to have a difficult childbirth which leaves a woman disabled afterwards.

And women DID work in Days of Yore. Quite hard. Even the rich ones.

kirbywarp
kirbywarp
13 years ago

@NWO:

Next time, do your own googling. Penalty for perjury.

Pecunium
13 years ago

NWO: If a woman has been proven and/or admitted to just flat out lying and falsely accusing a man of rape what should her punishment be?

Sigh.. we did this dance once before (at least). She should be punished as any other person who commits the crime(s) of filing a false accusation/police report and; should it go that far, perjury.

Really, if your memory is that bad I can see why you need to work ten-hour days; studying the manual every time you need to do something must get tiresome.

Mr. Kobold
Mr. Kobold
13 years ago

“If a woman has been proven and/or admitted to just flat out lying and falsely accusing a man of rape what should her punishment be?”

Subby…they get jail time. How slow can you possibly get at this point?

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/top-stories/2011/03/01/woman-who-lied-that-her-dad-abused-her-jailed-for-a-year-115875-22957309/

kirbywarp
kirbywarp
13 years ago

@Pecunium:

Great minds! Good to see that its been done before, even more reason to dismiss the idea of NWO being interested in truth.

Nobinayamu
Nobinayamu
13 years ago

NWO, it depends.

Which type of false accusation are we talking about?

1) Woman goes to the police and says she was raped. She doesn’t name a perpetrator, but does provide a description. Later, through police work, it’s discovered that she wasn’t raped and made the allegation to provide an alibi for her own missing time. Or to attract attention. Or because she’s mentally disturbed.

2) Woman is raped, possibly beaten and taken to the hospital. The police work with her to provide a description of her attacker and she picks the wrong guy out of a line up. DNA evidence later exonerates the accused.

3) Woman lies, specifically and with malice about a man with whom she’s had a consensual sexual encounter raping her. She can provide DNA evidence because there was consensual sex but she is lying because she wants him to be convicted and thrown in jail. Through police work, the truth becomes apparent.

So which scenario are we talking? You answer my question, and I’ll be happy to answer yours.

Pecunium
13 years ago

NWO: “Oh how the men in the past must have laughed working long hours in dangerous jobs, sometimes losing limbs, sometimes dying.” or the women in the mills… who would lose fingers to the shears, and die from shuttles flying loose while they were “shifting” (i.e. moving 40 lb. spools of thread to keep the looms spinning).

Or the one’s who were pregnant, and working in the fields, who might die from that sort of labor.

Or the one’s who were in the Triangle Shirtwaist Company. Or the one’s who died of septicemia from the puncture wounds they got in the sweatshops.

You know, the women who were living it up in the past, while the men went out and hunted mammoth, or something (ignoring that women in known hunter-gathering societies, from the Americas, Europe (the fringes of the Taiga), Asia, New Guinea (last place to live in the stone age, right up to the 1960s), all were the major providers of day to day sustenance, while looking after the children…. those lazy women).

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