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Blogger: SlutWalkers deserve to be raped

From the website of the Edmonton SlutWalk 2011

Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you the most odious misogynist bullshit I have seen thus far on the topic of the Slutwalks: a post on The Third Edge of the Sword, a blog that seems to go out of its way to be offensive and “edgy,” that takes victim blaming to a whole new level. Here’s the basic, er, argument of the post, which the author has put in giant pink letters so we won’t miss it:

Every woman marching in the Edmonton Slut Walk is publicly declaring herself a slut. This means every woman there desires sex with any and all partners. Any sexual activity you initiate with them comes with implied consent. They cannot say no, and if they do understand all their ‘no’s mean yes. They are all asking for it. They want it bad. Now. From you. Go get ’em!

Some other highlights:

[I]f you … dress slutty, men are going to stare at you. We’re going to catcall. We are going to tell you all sorts of sexual things we want to do to your body. And if you dress slutty and wave your ass in our face, we will do them. The organizers of this event are not oblivious to this point: what they want is a fake sexual revolution. They want to be able to impersonate sluts without actually being sluts, and that’s unacceptable. If you don’t want to be treated as a piece of meat, don’t marinate and grill yourself and sit perched on a piece of garlic toast. You dress slutty, you show off the goods, you try to get a reaction, you will get one. Hint: it’s not always going to be the one you want. …

The “reaction” he has in mind is rape. By calling rape a “reaction” instead of what it is — a criminal assault on someone, an act of sexual violence, a violation — he of course is attempting to switch the blame to the victim. He spells out his “logic” in more detail:

[W]hen you impersonate a slut we don’t fine you, and we don’t throw you in jail. There’s really only one punishment for dressing like a streetwalker when you aren’t one: you do have to endure the occasional rape. You should really suffer it in silence. Accept the character flaw within you that caused this, and move on. Police and court resources are already busy enough with real criminals: like actual rapists who do nasty things to their niece or the homeless native chick passed out under the bridge, or a conservatively dressed urban professional walking to her car, or a girl out jogging in a track suit. To equate the act of actually violating and raping one of these people with having sex with a girl who’s every square millimetre of public persona screams anybody who wants to can screw me right now is ridiculous.

Once again, this brand of misogyny leads to some conclusions that are pretty misandrist – namely, the notion that men are at heart rapists who can’t control their violent urges:

If you go out on the street in an outfit that would make Britney Spears feel uncomfortable, you do so knowing that your ultimate aim is to make men want you. Well, they want you now. Congrats. Oh, wait, you mean you didn’t understand what that implied? That in the great Bell curve of sexual congress you’ve just pushed everybody on the right-hand side of the -2 std devs line past that imaginary barrier that says “there is no power in the universe powerful enough to stop me from sliding my finger inside your panties”? I call bullshit. You do know. But you want to be a virginal slut, to dress in ways that makes men helpless to their urges but still leaves you fully in restrictive control.

The blogger concludes by arguing that the Slutwalkers are all “lying bitches” because they dress like they wasn’t to be raped, but do not actually want to be raped. Then he makes this lovely suggestion:

If your wife is one of them, I’m very very sorry. Maybe a good rape might make her a little more manageable around the house.

Now this post is an atmittedly extreme example of a misogynistic response to the Slutwalks. But the basic “logic” of this blogger’s would-be argument is essentially identical to that of many MRA and other “manosphere” pieces I’ve seen on the subject, the main difference between them being that this guy embraces the logical conclusion of his argument — that Slutwalkers deserve to be raped — while the MRAs who make essentially the same argument (and fling the same sorts of insults at the Slutwalkers) make a show of saying that they don’t really think the Slutwalkers “deserve” it. And maybe they’ve convinced themselves that this caveat means something . But in that case the extreme reaction that manosphere misogynists have had to the Slutwalks – the insults thrown at the Slutwalkers, the “jokey” references to rape, the prurient sneering – makes little sense. If you argue that women are “asking for it” when they dress like “sluts,” you’re essentially saying they deserve it. You’re making the same argument this guy is making, but pretending you aren’t.

NOTE: The graphic above is taken from the official web site for the Edmonton SlutWalk 2011, which took place a week ago. Here are some pictures of the march.

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Need to know
13 years ago

NWO- Nice try moving those goalposts, careful you don’t sprain something. Clothing choice is not consent.

Let me help you out here. Clothing choice- this blouse or that one? Consent- Yes, that sounds like fun, let’s do that!

Going out of one’s home is not consent. Having a drink, dancing or talking to a man- not consent. Having a meal with a man- not consent. Those are, in order, going out of one’s home, having a drink, dancing, talking to a man and/or having a meal. Clothing choice is not consent. Knowing someone is not consent. Being related to someone is not consent. Being momentarily in the company of a person with a hardon is. not. god damned. consent. you asshole.

Consent is consent. I find your inability to understand such a simple concept profoundly disturbing.

Having sexual contact with a person who has not explicitly and specifically agreed to that is sexual assault. Even if the person has had the temerity to dress as they please and to leave the confines of their own home they are still legally, morally and ethically entitled to decide who touches their very own personal body.

NWOslave
NWOslave
13 years ago

In Amiworld they’re indoctrinated to be gay in accordance with State law by are 6. There forced to kiss and snuggle with each other for the amusement of those in power.

Spearhafoc
13 years ago

Spearhafoc, I closed perfectly.

Guh? I said your post was close to having acceptable grammar. What did you think I meant, exactly?

Just because you and your feminist allys say something is good…

Just because you and your feminist allies say something is good…

Ami Angelwings
13 years ago

xD

I GOT HIM TO PLAY ALONG!!!!

YESSS XDDDD

Given that I’m in power, that’s abs true xD Except it’s not the Amiworld, it’s the Ami VERSE 😀

Except I dun believe in the state… why would I need a state at all? o_O You think too small xD

NWOslave
NWOslave
13 years ago

Need to Know if you dress and act like a slut and I say, “hey nice cleavage ya wanna fuck?” Don’t be insulted. You act like a slut so expect to be treated like one. What, suddenly you’re a delicate snowflake that’ll melt from harsh language?

Bee
Bee
13 years ago

Slaver, I assume that the prepubescent children rant has something to do with your link. I’m not going to click on the link, and I’m not going to watch a video. If you’d like you can describe the important findings in words, as you are able.

I actually think, though, that sexuality is a part of life. A pretty important one at that. I think what a child is able to understand depends on their age and maturity. I think that some aspects of sex can be described in a way that a young child could understand it — and I know for a fact that children do understand some aspects of sex at a very young age, and are curious about it.

For example, I think that telling children that some little boys and girls are lucky enough to have two mommies or two daddies, and there’s nothing wrong with that, is hardly the same as … indoctrinating them to Be Gay. I also think that having a frank conversation with a child about consent and respecting other people’s bodies, for example, would be far less dangerous than allowing that child to poke a wasp nest. (Or was that just a signal that you know you’re being idiotic?)

Spearhafoc
13 years ago

In Amiworld they’re indoctrinated to be gay in accordance with State law by are 6. There forced to kiss and snuggle with each other for the amusement of those in power.

In Amiworld, they’re indoctrinated to be gay in accordance with State law by are 6*. They’re forced to kiss and snuggle with each other for the amusement of those in power.

*I have no idea what you’re trying to say there. English, motherfucker, do you speak it‽

kirbywarp
kirbywarp
13 years ago

NWO:

“Pedophilia is also a psychosexual disorder in which the fantasy or actual act of engaging in sexual activity with prepubertal children is the preferred or exclusive means of achieving sexual excitement and gratification. It may be directed toward children of the same sex or children of the other sex. Some pedophiles are attracted to both boys and girls. Some are attracted only to children, while others are attracted to adults as well as to children.”

source

Ami Angelwings
13 years ago

I believe I’ve made my point tho xD He doesn’t even TRY to counter it, he’s just obsessed with getting back at me XDDDD

He went from “I never read a thing you say” to “you’re incomprehensible” to going on a full tilt xDDD *leans back on the ropes* XD (oh wait.. for the feminist conspiracy: XXD)

Johnny Pez
13 years ago

Spear, it’s actually a very clever code that Subbie has come up with to fool the New World Order. If nobody understands what he’s saying, then they can’t drag him off to the FEMA camps.

That and the tinfoil hat will keep him safe. XD

NWOslave
NWOslave
13 years ago

Spearhafoc…Ya wanna know something? And this is the truth. I did that on purpose. I wanted to see if you’d stupidly correct my grammar again. This poor tactic to prove your/you’re superior intelligence is pure self indulgent narcissism.

Ami Angelwings
13 years ago

Wow.. he sure showed you xD

Johnny Pez
13 years ago

The “I meant to do that” defense.

You are Scott Adams, and I claim my five dollars.

kirbywarp
kirbywarp
13 years ago

If NWO is Scott Adams, I am truly and finally never going to read another Dilbert cartoon again.

Bee
Bee
13 years ago

“I have no idea what you’re trying to say there. English, motherfucker, do you speak it‽”

I think I can translate: “they’re indoctrinated to be gay in accordance with State law by AGE 6.”

I speak Slave now. I am scared.

NWOslave
NWOslave
13 years ago

Hey Johnny Pez. Do you give your last name as Pez because you hide pez in your pockets and have that dog of your’s go in after them?

NWOslave
NWOslave
13 years ago

Oh no Bee. A total word error. Yet you figured it out. You must be smart.

kristinmh
kristinmh
13 years ago

Oh, this is the AmiVerse now?

Then I, for one, welcome our new Ami overlords!

Let the snuggling and kissing commence!

[evil laughter]

XD

Ami Angelwings
13 years ago

Actually it’s Age -6 (from 6 years before they were born, but were still existing potentially in their future parents in some form) xD The Ami Future doesn’t take chances >:3

kirbywarp
kirbywarp
13 years ago

I, for one, welcom our new snuggling and kissing overlords! 😀

Feyline
13 years ago

Hey Johnny Pez. Do you give your last name as Pez because you hide pez in your pockets and have that dog of your’s go in after them?

Is…is that an insult now? Slavey has well and truly snapped.

kirbywarp
kirbywarp
13 years ago

So, NWO, ignore this if you’re typing a response at the moment, but when the actual clinical definition for pedophilia is in direct contradiction with yours, are you gonna admit you are wrong?

Magpie
Magpie
13 years ago

Going back to the ‘big bag of money’ bit, theft is not the same as assault. it’s a very poor analogy.

Johnny Pez
13 years ago

Hey Johnny Pez. Do you give your last name as Pez because you hide pez in your pockets and have that dog of your’s go in after them?

Hey Johnny Pez. Do you give your last name as Pez because you hide pez in your pockets and have that dog of yours go in after them?

I meant to do that!

NWOslave
NWOslave
13 years ago

Than write/right your/you’re congressman/woman everybody and tell them to have have boys snuggling boys and girls snuggling girls by nursery school. Let’s get em early.