Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you the most odious misogynist bullshit I have seen thus far on the topic of the Slutwalks: a post on The Third Edge of the Sword, a blog that seems to go out of its way to be offensive and “edgy,” that takes victim blaming to a whole new level. Here’s the basic, er, argument of the post, which the author has put in giant pink letters so we won’t miss it:
Every woman marching in the Edmonton Slut Walk is publicly declaring herself a slut. This means every woman there desires sex with any and all partners. Any sexual activity you initiate with them comes with implied consent. They cannot say no, and if they do understand all their ‘no’s mean yes. They are all asking for it. They want it bad. Now. From you. Go get ’em!
Some other highlights:
[I]f you … dress slutty, men are going to stare at you. We’re going to catcall. We are going to tell you all sorts of sexual things we want to do to your body. And if you dress slutty and wave your ass in our face, we will do them. The organizers of this event are not oblivious to this point: what they want is a fake sexual revolution. They want to be able to impersonate sluts without actually being sluts, and that’s unacceptable. If you don’t want to be treated as a piece of meat, don’t marinate and grill yourself and sit perched on a piece of garlic toast. You dress slutty, you show off the goods, you try to get a reaction, you will get one. Hint: it’s not always going to be the one you want. …
The “reaction” he has in mind is rape. By calling rape a “reaction” instead of what it is — a criminal assault on someone, an act of sexual violence, a violation — he of course is attempting to switch the blame to the victim. He spells out his “logic” in more detail:
[W]hen you impersonate a slut we don’t fine you, and we don’t throw you in jail. There’s really only one punishment for dressing like a streetwalker when you aren’t one: you do have to endure the occasional rape. You should really suffer it in silence. Accept the character flaw within you that caused this, and move on. Police and court resources are already busy enough with real criminals: like actual rapists who do nasty things to their niece or the homeless native chick passed out under the bridge, or a conservatively dressed urban professional walking to her car, or a girl out jogging in a track suit. To equate the act of actually violating and raping one of these people with having sex with a girl who’s every square millimetre of public persona screams anybody who wants to can screw me right now is ridiculous.
Once again, this brand of misogyny leads to some conclusions that are pretty misandrist – namely, the notion that men are at heart rapists who can’t control their violent urges:
If you go out on the street in an outfit that would make Britney Spears feel uncomfortable, you do so knowing that your ultimate aim is to make men want you. Well, they want you now. Congrats. Oh, wait, you mean you didn’t understand what that implied? That in the great Bell curve of sexual congress you’ve just pushed everybody on the right-hand side of the -2 std devs line past that imaginary barrier that says “there is no power in the universe powerful enough to stop me from sliding my finger inside your panties”? I call bullshit. You do know. But you want to be a virginal slut, to dress in ways that makes men helpless to their urges but still leaves you fully in restrictive control.
The blogger concludes by arguing that the Slutwalkers are all “lying bitches” because they dress like they wasn’t to be raped, but do not actually want to be raped. Then he makes this lovely suggestion:
If your wife is one of them, I’m very very sorry. Maybe a good rape might make her a little more manageable around the house.
Now this post is an atmittedly extreme example of a misogynistic response to the Slutwalks. But the basic “logic” of this blogger’s would-be argument is essentially identical to that of many MRA and other “manosphere” pieces I’ve seen on the subject, the main difference between them being that this guy embraces the logical conclusion of his argument — that Slutwalkers deserve to be raped — while the MRAs who make essentially the same argument (and fling the same sorts of insults at the Slutwalkers) make a show of saying that they don’t really think the Slutwalkers “deserve” it. And maybe they’ve convinced themselves that this caveat means something . But in that case the extreme reaction that manosphere misogynists have had to the Slutwalks – the insults thrown at the Slutwalkers, the “jokey” references to rape, the prurient sneering – makes little sense. If you argue that women are “asking for it” when they dress like “sluts,” you’re essentially saying they deserve it. You’re making the same argument this guy is making, but pretending you aren’t.
NOTE: The graphic above is taken from the official web site for the Edmonton SlutWalk 2011, which took place a week ago. Here are some pictures of the march.
NWO:
This is the last thing I’m gonna say to you, because obviously you are unable to comprehend anything even vaguely related to nuance. Here is the wikipedia page for NAMBLA. Of particular note is the “Relations with LGBT organizations” section, where pretty much every single LGBT group have severed any ties with NAMBLA. Even if most NAMBLA members (1,100 members at last count) are gay, every other gay organization has “disowned” them (in a sense). Studies in psychology show that the two are seperate phenomena.
Like I said, this is a tactic (equating the two) commonly seen in homophobes to try to scare people into thinking that all gays are child molestors. I’m assuming you fit this category (“Holy shit dude, snap out of your leftist love of gayness.”).
Oh really Bee, keep telling yourself that as your children are indoctrinated in school to be gay. http://www.massresistance.org/media/video/brainwashing.html
I wonder whose teaching them. Wanna guess if the “instructor” is getting his rocks off?
Also, Slavey, why haven’t you raped anyone if you don’t actually think there’s anything wrong with raping a woman who’s “asking for it”?
Huh. Someone asks NWO if he’s a rapist, and all of a sudden he’s flinging accusations of pedophilia at the first name he sees. I know talking in circles and ignoring straight-up questions is nothing new for him, but that’s still pretty damn suspicious. :-/
Gee kirbywarp, would that be like feminism “disowning” all the “bad radical” elements while garnishing the inroads, laws, ect. made by those elements?
BTW, Slavey, if a big, strong gay dude decided that you were dressed slutty, and raped you, then it would your fault for provoking him, right? And remember, by your own logic, it’s the attacker, not the victim, who decides whether the victim is dressed slutty. XD
“Who’s”, short for “who is”. “Whose” is the possessive pronoun.
Also, Spearhafoc, why haven’t you raped any little boys since you support your LGBTQ faction so much. They must be “asking for it”.
I can play the insult game as well you filthy pedophile. Ya wanna keep on playing?
“Wanna guess if the “instructor” is getting his rocks off?”
Was xie a pedophile? Then … I don’t know — maybe? But, is this actually going to the place where you deduce that gay teachers are predators? Because I feel like that’s where this is going, and that’s disgusting.
Oh no a grammar error on my part spearhafoc. What does that give you the right to do? beastiality
No, they’re not. By definition, they’re not.
You’re the only person here claiming anyone is “asking” to be raped. The rest of us are against rape.
OMG he’s going into gay agenda thing now? xD He practically straws himself xD The Illuminati, the Jewish Conspiracy, now the Gay Pedophile Agenda xD
Next he’s going to quote that Onion article that the anti-gay “family” group in Canada quoted from in their “research” to prove the gay agenda in our schools xD (they could have just asked me… I’m a pretty big wheel in the Canadian chapter of The Gay Conspiragenda 😀 )
I wonder what other conspiragendas he believes in o_O
No WONDER I bother him so much xD I belong to pretty much every group he hates (except I’m not Jewish, but I AM Chinese, so I guess that makes me a communist invasion spy too… from those foreigners trying to outbreed and takeover Teh West xD )
We have a wonderful language. Stop abusing it. Please.
Also, Slavey, you tease you, you haven’t answered MY question!
Eh, what the hell.. I’m a glutton for punishment it seems…
@NWO:
There was a study done in MA, finding the orientation of about 175 child abusers. Guess what? Not one of them were gay! The truth is that child abuse is widespread, most child abusers are male, and a fair proportion of the children molested are male as well. But the majority orientation of the abusers? Straight. As I’ve said over and over, pedophilia is not attraction to the gender of a child, its attraction to pre-pubescence.
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Bee, reguardless of the teachers intentions. Don’t ya think prepubecent children are a little young to be taught any sexuality? C’mon they should playing hopscotch, jump rope, or poking a wasp nest with a stick and running like the devil himself is chasing them. Not being taught any type of sexual mores. Lets them be kids for a while before there introduced into the magical joy of homosexuality.
NWO in over the line… he’s not waiting…. he shoo… no wait.. he picked up the puck! He’s running behind the net! He… he spiked the puck! :O TOUCHDOWN!!
xDDDD
C’mon, subbie boy! Answer the question! You know you want to!
XD
So close with that post. So close.
Kirbywarp, dude, wake up. Same sex child abusers are gay. I hate to burst your bubble but there are bad gay people. Why are you sticking up for them?
Okay, getting better. Now if only you could improve the content.
I guess all the stories of princes and princesses, girlfriends and boyfriends… Lois and Clark… Cinderella, Snow White, Ben 10, Aladdin, Final Fantasy, Super Mario, Spider-Man etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc xD don’t count XDD
But then in NWOrld I presume they’d all be raised in the NWOrganization in a big vacuum sealed room where they’re forced to play hop scotch.. the only one and true asexual game! xD
Spearhafoc, I closed perfectly. I make no bones about online and in RL. I find LGBTQ repulsive. Just because you and your feminist allys say something is good, doesn’t mean I have to agree.
If you score a touchdown in hockey, does that count as six goals?
And I’m still waiting for an answer from you, Subbie.