Poor Arnold Schwarzenegger!
Picture the scene.
It’s January 1997. Arnold’s in a good mood, sitting in his den, paging through the latest issue of Variety. He chuckles to himself. Fuck the critics! Jingle All the Way is putting asses in the seats of the multiplexes of America, and that means money in the bank to the Terminator.
Suddenly, he hears the door to the room click shut behind him. It’s that devious maid again, with her wily, sexy Latin ways! “Que pasa?” she says, running her hands through his hair. He’s still not quite sure what that phrase means, exactly, but it seems to have a hypnotic effect on him, and his penis. He pulls the maid to him.
The next minute and a half are a blur. “Curses!” he mutters to himself, as he realizes that, once again, the wily maid has lured his hapless penis into her vaginal cavity. But it’s too late. The penis has released its precious load. “Me han robado tu esperma,” she hisses. “¿Dónde está la biblioteca?”
This, give or take a few of the details, seems to be how the author of the Rebuking Feminism blog imagines the events that led to the birth of Arnold’s love-child 14 years ago. Yep: in his version of events, it’s the women – both the maid, Patty Baena, and wife Maria – who are responsible for Arnold’s indiscretions:
Maria Shriver should have known better than to let any half way decent looking woman spend so much time in the house. The whole ballgame changes when a man reaches Arnold’s status. Women come begging to be f***ed by you. Women practically disrobe and spread when guys like Arnold walk in the room. I’m sure he abstained plenty of times but women like this maid wait for her opportunity when in such close proximity.
It’s tough, I guess, to be a freakishly huge, fabulously wealthy alpha male who wants to fuck everything in sight. But tougher indeed to be a beta:
As is quite common with the type of situation that took place with Arnold, I’m sure this little whore took her prized bastard back home to be raised by her oblivious, committed, and cuckolded beta male husband.
Some people might say, hey, isn’t Arnold partially to blame for cuckolding that little whore’s cuckolded beta male husband? No. It’s important to remember: he’s a victim too, and obviously not responsible for the sexual activity that Mrs. Baena lured him into with her fiery Latin vagina.
Maria may now file for divorce. The only people to end up completely fu*ked here will be the two men…Arnold for engaging in adultery (and the price only men have to pay for it) and the man that was cuckolded by his adulterous whore wife and will have to pay for it as well. Men bear liability to women on both sides of the equation. Men have no rights.
Now all Maria and Patty need to do is sit back and collect the cash. Ka-ching-gle All the Way!
EDITED TO ADD: The author of the post has added a response to my post as a addendum to his original post. The gist of it:
Arnold and his impropriety was not the intended focus of this article. I take it as common knowledge among my readers that what Arnold did was obviously wrong. This was not the point of the article.
The point of this article was to illustrate how adultery is supported by law on one end (the female end) and not supported by law on the male end.
NWOslave
The next time you are masturbating it would do you good to remember that by some churches standards spilling your seed is considered to be a mortal sin.
I personally (knowing this will not be a popular stance) as an atheist humanist believe that it is wrong to bring a child into the world that you cannot provide for emotionally or financially. I believe it is a “sin” that we allow people to go homeless, to starve, to be born in inhumane conditions that from a western middle-class ideal we would not allow our pets to live in.
I believe you do not really care about children, including the unborn. I believe you latch onto the pro-life movement as one more way to demonize women. Did you know that the majority of voters in the U.S who consider themselves to be pro-life in terms of abortion also are supporters of the death penalty? Explain to me how that is logical?
You are a broken individual who obviously has gone through severe emotional trauma. You need to except the fact that your reality is different from the vast majority, and your mind is wired in a way that impedes your judgement. There is help out there if you want it, in fact I”ll point you to it when you are ready to except that you have a real problem.
“The CHOICE was yours to use a condom. You didn’t. No sympathy here. Bed made lie. Those are YOUR kids, not mine, YOU stuck your dick inside someone with no protection and squirted.”
Again, as stated in the former message this would make the converse true as well. This is, contraception is not the sole responsibility of the man. It is not something a man does not do for a woman. It is a mutual act requiring mutual responsibility. Equal negligence makes no one person culpable.
“No one else should have to pay for them except the people whose irresponsibility brought them into existence in the first place”
Correct, each person should then decide to pay for this or not pay for this and this is where abortion comes in….for both parties.
“does not mean said children are somehow NOT their responsibility and thus everyone else needs to pick up their slack.”
Correct and this is why we must trust that a woman makes the right decision to abort if the father decides so if she can’t afford it on her own. Forcing men to pay for women’s “choices” is a violation of his rights and thus the rights to his bodily property i.e. his body and the fruits of its labor.
“And as for women not wanting to risk the medical effects of childbirth, it can only be a tragic and devastating ignorance that causes your incredulity/contempt for that viewpoint. It is either that or you are one sadistic fuck for *expecting* or demanding women risk the following, which is only one of many problems that can crop up with pregnancy and childbirth, up to and including death”
No one ever said this was not a factor. If it is a factor then she should get an abortion. No one says a woman has to conceive or not conceive. The only variable here is whether the father is in the picture or not. Nothing affects a woman’s choice but her own best judgement. So you are correct, society should not be responsible for a woman’s bad decision to bring a child into the world she could not afford knowing that the father decided to abort.
BTW, women commonly fall into poverty after divorce while men commonly do much better after divorce.
Arnie, I think you asked me earlier in the discussion “what about men’s feelings” when it comes to abortion. The funny thing about men and their freedom of choice is that they can always stick to fucking women with the same ideological viewpoints as them.
If you are a fundy Christian pro-life control freak MRAer, don’t fuck a pro-choice feminist. Especially don’t fuck a pro-choice feminist and then whine at the outcome if she chooses to abort. Stick to balling fundy Christian pro-life women if you want the resulting fetuses so badly. I have no sympathy for an MRA idiot who fucks a pro-choice Childfree feminist and then acts all outraged at the inevitable outcome.
As for how I feel about the father’s viewpoint, sure, the father is entitled to his feelings. If he wants to feel sad about my abortion, fine. I have the number for a good therapist if he wants to talk about it with a pro.
You idiots just pretend that life is some big damn tragic accident that just HAPPENS to you.
“What world do you live in, dude? Seriously. What do you think women do in their day-to-day lives? I have commitments, I have responsibilities, I have things in my life that I need to be accountable for, I have obligations. What do you think happens with women who have jobs, or children or elderly parents to care for, or who run companies, or volunteer, or who have dear friends that they’ve made promises to, or own pets, even? Do you think they — what? They wait for men to remind them to go to work and remind them that their mom’s diaper needs to be changed and take their hand as they go to the food bank to pack boxes? What the hell, dude.”
You have nothing in marriage that you can not walk away from.
“And about men being needed as part of the family, I have to wonder what you think about the men you see, too. Of COURSE men are needed as part of the family, as much as women are. Kids love their dads, moms love their sons, nieces love their uncles, etc. It seems very obvious; it astounds me that you don’t know this.”
No no no, men BY LAW are not needed. Men are disposable and expendable from the family.
No we do not as it is mandated that men perform labor for women and give them the fruits thereof or be placed in a cage. You call this control over ones body?
“Again: What the living hell? These things that you are saying bear no relation to my life. None.”
We are not talking about your life we are talking about the LAW.
Arnie: The man isn’t “aborting” anything.
He’s abandoning. The world can’t “fair”. We don’t all get what we want. So… if you can’t work to keep from someone getting pregnant… don’t fuck.
It’s what I do. It’s what every responsible person does.
What, do you think there are women out there looking to “steal sperm”? Are you telling me you have a real worry about that happening to you?
If so… what are you doing to protect yourself?
Because what you are complaining about is that men take a risk, and then they have to pay the cost of losing a bet.
I’ve had a lot of sex. I’ve been having sex for 28 years. so that… (back of the envelope)… about 500 possible pregnancies.
Somehow I’ve managed to avoid having kids.
I must be amazingly lucky (given how much of a problem you seem to think this is) to avoid having some conniving woman force me to be a parent.
Again… the issue is twofold.
1: Only the pregnant person can, morally, ethically, be given the decision in regards to attempting to carry a pregnancy to term. She risks all the health problems. She is only person compelled to pay for medical procedures/treatments related to the pregnacy, etc.
The thing the man is responsible for is… the resultant child.
There is no way around that. The child has needs. The man was instrumental in the creation of that child.
We don’t always get what we want. We pays our money, and we takes out chances. I didn’t want to go to Iraq. I enlisted (in 1993) and a war I didn’t believe in was declared.
I went.
Why? Because it was part of the deal.
Kids are a part of “the deal” one runs the risk of when one chooses to fuck.
“Believe it or not, I know a fair number of straight couples where the woman is the primary breadwinner and the man stays home to raise a child,”
Go ahead and think that a man’s resource potential is not a deciding factor in her mate choice after seeing the info below.
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Arnie: How many men are in prison/jail now for not paying child support?
As to women being able to walk away from a marriage… not so much as a man can. The only time a woman in a marriage has (rough) parity in the ability to walk away… is when there are no kids.
As soon as kids show up, the woman is even more disadvantaged.
This is, contraception is not the sole responsibility of the man.
EVERY man needs to take responsibility for his own fertility. Whether that means using condoms, getting a snip, or talking with your partners and only choosing ones who you know agree with you.
If you WANT kids, don’t fuck a pro-choice woman who doesn’t want kids. If you DON’T want kids, don’t fuck a woman who you know is going to keep a pregnancy resulting from sex with you.
This isn’t rocket science, morons.
And again, I don’t give a fuck about YOUR “freedom to abort” when it costs me, Law Q. Taxpayer, money to pick up the slack when you go squirting your sperm all over the place indiscriminately and then playing the “rights” card. It’s still your sperm, not mine, and strangers shouldn’t have to fucking raise your kids.
It’s estimated around 50,000 are in jail daily because they are TOO POOR to pay their full child support.
It costs taxpayers nearly $2 billion each year to incarcerate the Them.
Okay, so we’re not talking about real life, we’re talking about laws?
Men and women both have the same ability to walk away from a marriage, actually. By law.
And, you keep saying this, but the law doesn’t value mothers over fathers, either. The law values having children in the best home for that child, with a parent paying for the child’s needs. This is crazy talk you’re talking.
We are not talking about your life we are talking about the LAW.
Ah, well by LAW, then, my boyfriend, who is part of my life, should have been put in a cage long ago. He doesn’t pay for me or any other woman, the fruits of his labor are his own. And yet he’s a free man. Somehow, your carefully thought out, insane conspiracy has failed to come true …
“EVERY man needs to take responsibility for his own fertility. Whether that means using condoms, getting a snip, or talking with your partners and only choosing ones who you know agree with you.”
Translation: Take responsibility for protection. Well…same goes for her. Equal so far..no culpability for unplanned conception on either one yet.
“If you WANT kids, don’t fuck a pro-choice woman who doesn’t want kids. If you DON’T want kids, don’t fuck a woman who you know is going to keep a pregnancy resulting from sex with you.”
Translation: Her choice, your responsibility.
Again, I disagree.
Arnie
Why was your father denied joint custody?
You do know of course that in Canada joint custody has been presumed for the last 15 years or so.
It sounds like you do have resentments towards your mother, and definitely your step father.
My wife and I have a very blended family. We married when our children were between the ages of 4 to 16. Our ex-spouses are very much a part of our lives and family. Our youngest has always lived with his dad who was the primary parent before divorce.
Why do you discount my reality as being the norm and try to push your reality as being normal? Wouldn’t it be easier to deal with the fact that most parents don’t act like yours did and just let it go and get on with your life?
Darksidecat has from what I’ve read here has had huge struggles in her life, yet she got herself through law school! Instead of seeing her as the enemy why not try seeing her as a real role model. You can overcome if you want to.
“And, you keep saying this, but the law doesn’t value mothers over fathers, either. The law values having children in the best home for that child, with a parent paying for the child’s needs. This is crazy talk you’re talking.”
And where is the best home for the child? What constitutes the best home?
We are not talking about your life we are talking about the LAW.
“Ah, well by LAW, then, my boyfriend, who is part of my life, should have been put in a cage long ago. He doesn’t pay for me or any other woman, the fruits of his labor are his own. And yet he’s a free man. Somehow, your carefully thought out, insane conspiracy has failed to come true”
Try having a child with him or live with him long enough to constitute common law marriage or…actually marry and see who’s ass is OWNED by the other. He will be legally bound to be a provider to an independent woman and HER children.
Men are disposable and expendable from the family.
I don’t know what men you’re talking about, but loving, responsible, hardworking fathers who have a close, supportive relationship with their children’s mother don’t seem to have these problems.
On the other hand, men with abuse problems, drug problems, or sex offense problems generally don’t have happy home lives and tend to find themselves in trouble with the law.
“You do know of course that in Canada joint custody has been presumed for the last 15 years or so.”
WOOOW!!! I wish I lived in your country. Here it is not. Here we have VAWA and other laws that say the burden to prove you are a good father is on you. All a woman needs to do is say you are a bad father and all rights are removed immediately.
This is if she really wants to ensure you are fucked. Otherwise there is still no presumed joint custody.
Translation: Her choice, your responsibility.
Again, I disagree.
You have a CHOICE who you fuck and you have a CHOICE to use condoms or get snipped.
Exercise the right choices, use your brain, stop bitching that life has consequences for the stupid.
“I don’t know what men you’re talking about, but loving, responsible, hardworking fathers who have a close, supportive relationship with their children’s mother don’t seem to have these problems.”
You really think that good fathers are not alienated from their children and removed from their lives. You live in Canada. Default here is visitation of 4 days a month.
“On the other hand, men with abuse problems, drug problems, or sex offense problems generally don’t have happy home lives and tend to find themselves in trouble with the law.”
You really think these are the only men that are alienated from their children?
“Exercise the right choices, use your brain, stop bitching that life has consequences for the stupid.”
Conception and marriage only have consequences for men. For women they are choices that can be walked away from.
Gonna run for now.
Arnie
What happened within your family isn’t normal.
It’s your choice now to change your families cycle or not. You have some choices to make.