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So the fellows over on NiceGuy’s MGTOW forum are discussing why women seem to like DJs — sorry, “why a womyn so crazy about DJs?” Because that’s what Men Going Their Own Way like to do: spend all their time speculating about the details of the dating lives of the women that they totally don’t want to have anything to do with.
I can’t answer for the, er, womyn, but last year I had a date with a woman who did a bit of DJing, and considering that I’m sort of a music obsessive her DJing seemed maybe just a tiny bit, you know, cool?
But apparently for the womyn it’s all about status. Also, women are apparently extremely stupid. According to the going-his-own-way-dude Iron John:
Womyn are focused always on two things 1) The immediate situation, as they lack foresight and hindsight, 2) Immediate foodchain. So when they find themselves in a night club they are looking for immediate indications of status. What do they see? A single individual who gets to control the music, lights, etc. They don’t see the artists that created this stuff ahead of time, the business men who owns the establishment, or the bankers who collect the profits. The see just one man who appears to be running everything. They can’t see anything else so to them it does not exist. Since that one man is in control of their immediate environment he MUST be the, “alpha male”. And we all know what girls think of him.
Yeah, that must be it. That’s why, whenever they get on a bus, women immediately start throwing themselves at the bus driver. He’s driving the thing! Obvious Alpha! Or why when they go to a convenience store, they throw themselves at the clerk. He controls access to the shriveled hot dogs and lottery tickets! Obvious Alpha! Or why, whenever they get into elevators, they throw themselves at the elevator buttons. They control where the elevator goes! Obvious Alpha.
I just wish I understood women as well as these guys.
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>Sophia X said… Oh my… that submissive women secrets website is hysterical. It's so over the top, I'm guessing it was written by a submissive woman with the idea of scamming idiots… I think so too, the usual spammer with links to sex-blogs, nothing unusual on the internet.
>"Well, life just got a tiny bit better for Thai women if these a-holes have started boycotting them." I think you misunderestood this comment. I think life gets a tiny bit better for any women that those at the Niceguy forums start boycotting. It was not meant to be a reference to the general quality or lack therefore of any specific woman or country of women. Also, for someone who spent an entire comment whinging about how the comment was made by a thai man, your assumption that I was discussing only American or Western European men is extra ridiculous.
>Yohan ignores that the fact that there are more "foreign wives with Japanese husbands" in Japan is because Japanese men too find that their own women are too "feminist" (lolz) and seek out those they perceive to be more grateful and submissive. So you have Eastern European women, women from Thailand or the Philippines or China, and guess what? They have little legal recourse if their husbands abuse them or divorce them. *BOOT* Git back to China! You want to see your children? Ha ha ha. Sucker.Which isn't to say western women (what few there are) married to Japanese men have much sway either. Rates of abuse in Japan are extremely high, and most of it goes unreported due to the way the culture is structured. Being British won't protect you from that, although it makes it more likely that someone will kick up a fuss if you're found dead. As an anecdote, I had a friend who had a Japanese boyfriend. He would abuse her in public. No one would do a damn thing to help her, and he treated her like slime until she finally broke it off. She was American, but with her mixed heritage she looked Filipina. A Japanese man abusing an "Asian" woman on the street? Meh. Who cares?
>Yes, those are my blogs. Well, they're all pretty moribund at the moment, but yeah. What's your point?No, I'm not a radical feminist. I mean, by anyone's definition other than an MRA's, which basically has anyone to the left of Camille Paglia as a "radical feminist." The actual radical feminists think I'm a patriarchy-blowing traitor, at least last I was bothering to talk to them much. I'm basically in it for the lulz at this point. On which note: keep talkin'.
>I should say: SM feminists is a group blog and I never had all that much input; it's not "mine." But yes, I was amused at the submissive women site because like pretty much anyone who has even a passing acquaintance with BDSM (or for that matter, Earth), this is…not how it work. Not even a little bit. "You missed the funny part."
>@chocomintlipwax So you have Eastern European women, women from Thailand or the Philippines or China, and guess what? There are about 2 million foreigners in Japan.I cannot give you a breakup in gender, but the number of Eastern European men+women in Japan is very small, nowhere listed and is therefore only among 'others' of the last census.The number of Thai people in Japan is small, totally considered to be about 43000.Many of them have working contracts for construction and are men and not women.A big community are the Koreans, (not mentioned by you), about 25+ percent of all foreigners, about 600000 from NorthKorea and SouthKorea.Another large group are the SouthAmericans, from Brazil/Peru, and usually 3rd or 4th generation of former Japanese nationals.Next are the Filipinos, about 10 percent of all foreigners.China is the big neighbour next to Japan and of course the foreign community here is the largest of all, 30+ percent of foreigners in Japan are Chinese, this includes people from Taiwan and HongKong.If you think that all these Chinese people (and other foreigners) living here are poor and female mail-order-brides or prostitutes, then you are totally wrong and do not know anything about the real life in Japan.About marriage between Japanese men and foreign females – it usually takes place between rural people, as Japanese young women move away into the big cities and there are many more Japanese men in the remote farming and fishing areas living than women. What shall these men do? Their choice is either to live as a single or to look for a foreign wife.On the other side, in all major Japanese cities there are more women than men.About the crime rate in Japan, it is about 1:20 compared to the USA. Your idea that crimes are not reported because this is Japan and not USA is bare nonsense.About violence of Japanese men and Japanese women, investigations of the Ministry of Welfare in Japan show a figure of about 2:1 – which means Japanese women are also violent, but not like in USA or UK, where women and men are equally violent, or even more violent than men.
>DarkSideCat: … your assumption that I was discussing only American or Western European men is extra ridiculous. But when reading your comments and those of other feminists, I read only about American/Western European men…However these men are only a tiny part of the entire nightlife in Thailand.I read about poor Filipinas, mistreated by their foreign husband, but I read nothing about poor Filipinas or Indonesian maids, mistreated by their female employers. Special silence of course about a certain religion…Feminism was never free of racist tendency, as it benefits only certain group of (mostly white) females, who are anyway financially far away from being poor.Feminism is biased regarding crimes – crimes by women (preferable white) are ignored or even excused even in case the victim is a woman of color or Asian etc., while all men, also those without criminal record, are seen as wife-beaters, rapists, pedophiles or otherwise criminals.
>belledame222 said… Yes, those are my blogs. Well, they're all pretty moribund at the moment, but yeah. What's your point? Well, I was just thinking, maybe David needs urgently a spanking…
>@ YohanHas David recovered from the one Paul Elam gave him yet?Random Brother
>while all men, also those without criminal record, are seen as wife-beaters, rapists, pedophiles or otherwise criminals. Don't be silly, speaking for my feminist self I look at all men, criminal records or not, as potential tenders of the grill and pickle jar openers. Suffer the matriarchy!!!!
>Classical DJ's are hot. They control all the Beethoven. I will put out for that velvet-voiced bad boy who plays me some Violin Concerto in D Major, without batting an eye. And when he puts on Schubert's Trout Quintet, winking at me mischievously over his shoulder, I will, of course, go right on to the kitchen to prepare, well, trout. Because men with classical music CD's have that much power over me.