Category Archives: playing the victim
Misogyny as Activism: The Spearhead “On the Urgent Necessity of Criticizing Women.”
Posted by David Futrelle

It’s all Carole Lombard’s fault.
There are many, many, many reasons why the Men’s Rights movement is not now, and I suspect never will be, ready for prime time. One of these reasons is that even when MRAs are doing their best to wax eloquent, in the fanciest language they can muster, about the urgent need for men to save civilization from the degradations of feminism and cultural Marxism and whatever by saying even more bad things about women, they just can’t keep themselves from using phrases like “pussy pass.”
Posted in a woman is always to blame, advocacy of violence, atlas shrugged, crackpottery, evil sexy ladies, evil women, grandiosity, I'm totally being sarcastic, men who should not ever be with women ever, MGTOW, misogyny, MRA, not-quite-explicit threats, only men pay taxes apparently, oppressed men, patriarchy, playing the victim, PUA, pussy pass, reactionary bullshit, the spearhead, your time will come
Tags: antifeminism, men's rights, mgtow, misogyny, MRA
Alpha Dogging it with the Red Pill Subreddit
Posted by David Futrelle

So I spent a little time reading through The Red Pill subreddit yesterday and if there’s one thing that Red Pill Redditors aren’t, it’s fucking betas. No fucking way. They’re like the total fucking opposite of betas. And by that I mean they are ALPHA DOGS 4 LIFE.
Case in point: The totally rad insults they use to put the bitches in their place, as collected together in the recent thread “What Is The Most Cutting Insult You Have Said To A Woman Infield?” I mean, even the fact that they HAVE such a thread is totally ALPHA DOG but just listen to this ALPHA DOG shit they totally really say to women in real life totally for real:
Posted in alpha males, antifeminism, are these guys 12 years old?, beta males, douchebaggery, evil fat fatties, gullibility, lying liars, men invented everything, men who should not ever be with women ever, misogyny, MRA, only men pay taxes apparently, playing the victim, PUA, red pill, reddit, shit that never happened
Tags: alpha males, antifeminism, beta males, misogyny, PUA, reddit, the red pill
A Voice for Men declares itself too important to bother to write about me, then writes about me
Posted by David Futrelle

Man Boobz Minion disguised as female MRA
I was a little saddened to read recently that A Voice for Men — the self-proclaimed “Men’s Human Rights” site that has posted an open call to firebomb government buildings in its “activism” section — will no longer be writing about little old me.
Posted in a voice for men, advocacy of violence, antifeminism, are these guys 12 years old?, conspiracy theory, evil women, false accusations, FemRAs, grandiosity, I am making a joke, incoherent rage, kitties, men who should not ever be with women ever, misogyny, MRA, paranoia, paul elam, playing the victim, shit that never happened, splc
Tags: a voice for men, anti-feminism, antifeminism, conspiracy theory, men's rights, misogyny, MRA
Men’s Rights Redditor: Watch out ladies, or we’ll make Friend Zoning illegal!
Posted by David Futrelle

So the Men’s Rightsers over on Reddit are getting worked up over the evils of women “friend zoning” men, and one especially angry fellow by the name of andreipmbcn has a warning for the ladies: if they don’t watch themselves, the men’s rights movement might just rise up and make friend zoning illegal:

What this means is not exactly clear to me. Would women actually be required to have sex with all men who are aggressively “nice” towards them? Who knows. But judging from the dozens of upvotes andre’s comment got, Reddit MRAs like the sound of it.
(Thanks to Cloudiah for pointing me to this lovely comment.)
Hypergamy: How the harebrained notions of white nationalist F. Roger Devlin took the Manosphere by storm
Posted by David Futrelle

How manosphere doofuses think the world actually works.
Another in an ongoing series of posts on seminal works in the manosphere canon, as it were. At some point, I’ll make a page for these.
Like Warren Farrell’s The Myth of Male Power, F. Roger Devlin’s 2006 essay Sexual Utopia in Power (downloadable here) is a kind of Manospherian urtext, an original source of many of the terrible ideas that are now accepted as gospel wherever misogynists gather in large numbers online. Though the name of Devlin is hardly as well known as that of Farrell, many of his ideas, most notably his reworked notion of “hypergamy” — which we will get to in a minute — are omnipresent in the manosphere.
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Tags: antifeminism, men's rights, misogyny, MRA, PUA, racism
Warren Farrell on Unemployment, Salesmanship, and Other Things That Are Like Rape, Supposedly
Posted by David Futrelle

Warren Farrell: “We are still requiring men to be the sexual salespersons but now defining them as rapists when they do it well.”
Warren Farrell, as a sort of “elder statesman” of the Men’s Rights movement, may have gained a sort of weird respectability simply by being around as long as he has, and because he’s published books with major publishers. But the myth of Farrell’s intellectual respectability shatters pretty quickly once one takes a good, honest, and unbiased look at what he has actually written, in The Myth of Male Power and elsewhere.
We’ve already taken a look at some of the strange and troubling things he wrote about rape in that book. Farrell is also fond of rape as a metaphor, and regularly compares things that men endure to rape, as a way of bolstering his overall thesis that it is men, not women, who are the “disposable sex,” and who truly suffer.
Warren Farrell’s notorious comments on date rape: Not any more defensible in context than out of it
Posted by David Futrelle
NOTE: This is the second installment of The Myth of Warren Farrell, a continuing series examining Farrell’s The Myth of Male Power, the most influential book in the Men’s Rights canon. You can see the first post here.
Men’s Rights elder Warren Farrell has been accused of being a “rape apologist,” largely because of one now-notorious sentence he wrote in The Myth of Male Power:
We have forgotten that before we began calling this date rape and date fraud, we called it exciting.
This sentence is at least as puzzling as it is disturbing. Calling date rape “exciting” is pretty foul. But what on earth is “date fraud?”
Posted in antifeminism, consent is hard, imaginary oppression, mansplaining, men who should not ever be with women ever, misogyny, MRA, nice guys, oppressed men, playing the victim, rape, rape culture, reddit, the myth of warren farrell, warren farrell
Tags: men's rights, MRA, rape, reddit, warren farrell
Roosh’s Return of Kings blog: Tamerlan Tsarnaev had an American wife, therefore American women want to be beaten
Posted by David Futrelle
Leave it to Roosh V’s Return of Kings blog to publish the most reprehensible thing I’ve yet seen related to the Boston Marathon bombing.
In a post with the lovely title “The American Woman Has Hit An All-Time Low,” guest blogger Samseau offers some thoughts – that is to say, wild, unsupported speculation – about the widow of bombing suspect Tamerlan Tsarnaev, and uses that as evidence in a case against American women as a whole, declaring her “a profound marker in the decline of the American woman.”
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Tags: boston bombing, boston marathon bombing, domestic violence, katherine russell, misogyny, pick-up artists, PUA, roosh, Tamerlan Tsarnaev
How bad ideas get started: The “Apex Fallacy,” the “Frontman Fallacy,” and the murderer Marc Lepine
Posted by David Futrelle
So some Men’s Rightsers are up in arms because the powers that be at Wikipedia just deleted a page devoted to a phony “logical fallacy” invented by a friend of Paul Elam. According to the now-deleted Wikipedia page, “the apex fallacy refers to judging groups primarily by the success or failure at those at the top rungs (the apex, such as the 1%) of society, rather than collective success of a group.”
Posted in a voice for men, antifeminism, dozens of upvotes, drama kings, entitled babies, frontman fallacy, men who should not ever be with women ever, misogyny, MRA, playing the victim, reddit, sympathy for murderers, terrorism
Tags: antifeminism, marc lepine, men's rights, misogyny, MRA, wikipedia
The Feminist Hegemony will destroy your hard drive, and other things I learned from Erin Pizzey’s return visit to Reddit
Posted by David Futrelle
Two weeks ago, you may recall, antifeminist crusader and recent A Voice for Men recruit Erin Pizzey made an “Ask Me Anything” appearance on Reddit which was a rousing success, at least by the standards of Reddit and the Men’s Rights movement. (By the standards of logic and ordinary human decency, not so much.) This Saturday, she gave a sort of encore.
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