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British Men’s Rightser to feminists: I will fight you until my dying breath! And so will my totally real ex-model girlfriend.

Sasha's eloquent words, immortalized in ugly MRA poster form by Cloudiah of Artistry for Feminism. And Kittens.

Sasha’s eloquent words, immortalized in ugly MRA poster form by Cloudiah of Artistry for Feminism. And Kittens.

Meet Sasha. Sasha is an angry young man living in England (allegedly), with a super-HAWT girlfriend (allegedly), and a lot of opinions about feminism (not-so-allegedly). The other day, he decided to share some of these opinions with the world. Or at least with any of those feminists who happened to be reading the Men’s Rights subreddit at the time.

In a topic devoted to a conference on “lad culture” in British universities, Sasha lashed out at feminists for what he sees as their hypocritical attack on boorish, sexist “lads.” Hypocritical, you see, because these very same women allegedly have sex with posh men all the bloody time:

You don’t like ‘lad culture’? My dear, I don’t give a fuck what you do and don’t like. …  The hypocrisy is staggering – you’ll be dropping your knickers in a flash if a dashing Etonian invited you to the Bullingdon, but God forbid some working class fella gets a bit tipsy and sings a rugby song.

Naturally, he dismissed women’s accounts of harassment as stuff and nonsense:

You’ve been threatened with rape by fellow students ‘to loosen you up’? have you fuck, you lying toe tag. If you’re going to make shit up try to make it less fantastical why don’t you.

So in short my dear, fuck you and fuck the high horse you rode in on.

In a series of followup comments so angry that some of them were actually downvoted to zero by the Men’s Rights crowd — I know, right! — Sasha pranced about on his own high horse spewing misogynistic nonsense. First, he demanded that feminists take on the very serious gold-digging whore problem:

[A]re women inclined to be gold-digging whores? Unfortunately, there’s a good case for saying you are. I wouldn’t paint all of you with such a broad brush, but let’s put it simply: feminists – you’ve got to own this shit. There are many, many negative aspects of femininity, and you’ve got enough shit of your own to address before you start pointing fingers at anyone else.

Then he proclaimed feminists to be the equivalent of the racist English Defense League and the Klan.

You’re a bigot. You don’t understand that you’re a bigot, because like the EDL or the KKK you think that your status as a ‘persecuted group’ gives you the right to behave as vilely as possible. However be in no doubt as the depth of my utter disgust for you as a human being and for your ideology.

Oh, we be in no doubt.

You are a supporter of an ideology of hate. You are a feminist. You are, by definition, a fascistic narcissist who trades in lies, deceit and hatred. I will fight you until my dying breath and society would be better without you. That clear enough?

When a female Redditor pointed out that she herself had been catcalled on campus, he pulled out his trump card: his EX-MODEL GIRLFRIEND.

OK, well how do you explain the fact that my partner, who is an attractive 20-something American former fashion model attending a Northern English university, says that she has never, not once, ever, heard a single catcalling insult or ever felt threatened in any way whatsoever on her campus, or anywhere in the UK?

I faxed this comment of his to my fax girlfriend Kate Winslet, and she faxed back a message about what a lying loser she thought he was. Then we fax made out for a while until we ran out of toner.

Anyway, then Sasha yelled at his main critic for a bit:

You’re not a decent human being, you’re a feminist. You’re as vile and reprehensible as other bigots like the cunts in the Westborough Baptist Church, or Golden Dawn or the EDL or the KKK. Fuck you, fuck the family that raised you in such a cloud of ignorance and hatred, and fuck everything you stand for.

As for ‘helping men’, disparaging bigoted cunts like you is a key part of it.

Yes, that’s right. He called someone a “bigoted cunt,” without the slightest bit of self-awareness.

Then he took it a bit too far:

By the way, do you like cats? I know most feminists do. I like cats too. I’ll bet your cat thinks you’re a bigoted cunt as well.

Dude. Don’t EVEN go there.

NOTE: Thanks to Cloudiah and the AgainstMensRights subreddit for pointing me to Sasha’s oeuvre.

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Posted on February 25, 2014, in antifeminism, are these guys 12 years old?, entitled babies, evil sexy ladies, evil women, excusing abuse, grandiosity, incoherent rage, irony alert, men who should not ever be with women ever, misogyny, MRA, my hot girlfriend, oppressed men, reddit, sexual harassment and tagged , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 564 Comments.

  1. LBT: They are adorable! I love a good a cappella group! Listened to a ton of that in college; of course that’s because I was at a liberal arts college and you couldn’t go five feet without tripping over an a cappella group.

  2. have you fuck, you lying toe tag.

    This has “Next Big MRBM Meme” written all over it.

  3. Alan Thicke? Nope, never heard of him. Growing Pains was USian, yes? Only time I’ve watched much US television was when I was a kid, so think Addams Family … Flintstones … Bugs Bunny … Wacky Races … Mr Ed … Banana Splits … Cattanooga Cats … Scooby Doo …

    Perhaps I should expand to say I go for periods of months or years when I don’t listen to music at all, including my good-sized collection of medieval/renaissance/early baroque/Glenn Miller/1960s/Bruce Springsteen stuff. I’m in one of those periods right now, and in the times I get stuck hearing the radio at the hairdresser, I haven’t heard one thing I’d ever want to hear again.

  4. Robin thicke is an anagram of Itchier Knob.

    Best thing I’ve seen all day! And yes, it would appear that his itchy knob is the occasion for his separation. A sadistic part of me hopes he didn’t have a pre-nup, because That Awful Song is still bringing in mucho dinero.

  5. Toe tag = corpse

    Bigot = women who sleep with people they like and won’t sleep with people they don’t like.
    A definition of bigotry I have heard men espouse all the long years of my life.

  6. @David

    very intrested in fax double date wit kate n you. faxing gilllian anderson now wit details n sure she will be in it
    Im a fun person wit primo fax machine

    PLS RESPOND

  7. Speaking of stalker songs, I saw The. Worst. thing the other day. It was Sting performing Every Breath You Take, quite recently by the look of him. I don’t know if he was in Vegas or somewhere, but it was the sort of oversized band, lots of irrelevant tootling on piano and sax, a “mellow” rendition of it and general time-wasting filler – the sort of thing I associate with the musical interludes on chat shows, which always made me want to hide behind the couch for the shame of it all.

    ::hurl::

  8. thebewilderness, I’d bet he mistyped toe rag, because that’s an English insult going way back. Is calling someone a toe tag even a thing? It doesn’t make sense, because the toe tag is only attached to the corpse.

  9. RE: katz

    They are adorable! I love a good a cappella group!

    So do I! They weren’t popular at the schools I went too, but I love the resonance of voices together. It’s also why I like doo-wop and mbube, which rely on vocal strength with very little instrumental interference. Don’t get me wrong, I love instrumental music too, but the human voice is so glorious…

  10. Might be I am wrong and he was typoing toe rag. His preoccupation with death is what caused me to think he was using the toe tag = corpse slur. Creepy d00dz are creepy in many different ways.

  11. It’ just sort of a giant ewwww.

  12. It’d be typical if he did use “toe tag” deliberately – I mean, of all the things to try to use as a death-related slur (which is so stupid anyway), an innocuous piece of paper with someone’s details on it doesn’t strike me as much of an insult.

  13. that should be “this” came to mind

  14. WWTH – oh, that nitwit. He’s one of the boooooring trolls.

  15. Where’s Argenti? Ze has good luck summoning pecunium, right?

    And yes, I’m tackling the troll. *sigh* Wish me luck, since I know jack all about the military.

  16. Could we please get a troll who isn’t stuck on repeat? Just one is all I ask for. Mikey was fun for a while, but he seems to have run out of gas.

  17. Don’t get me wrong, I love instrumental music too, but the human voice is so glorious…

    It really is. My all-time favorite a cappella piece is Franz Biebl’s Ave Maria. Like a glimpse of heaven.

  18. Mikey got banned or modded into oblivion, so we’re not likely to see him again. Mind you he was stuck on repeat, too.

  19. Ooooh, how pretty! @_@

  20. By the way, do you like cats? I know most feminists do. I like cats too. I’ll bet your cat thinks you’re a bigoted cunt as well.

    To tell the truth, cats are generally only grumpy with me when I don’t promptly feed them their kibbles. But in that case, I am deserving of furrinati overlord wrath. Also, I personally would be more worried if a cat decided I was an exciting scratching post …

    As an aside, while I can’t keep a cat of my own (standard Tokyo renting rules), there is a department store in Ikebukuro that has a floor filled with cats that you can go visit. I believe it is called Nekobukuro.

    Lets see if this blockquote/linking thing works … hehehehehe.

  21. Link isn’t working. Which is a shame, because I was picturing something like this.

  22. “….you’ll be dropping your knickers in a flash if a dashing Etonian invited you to the Bullingdon…”

    I haven’t got the foggiest idea WTH that means, but it sounds kinky.

    “…but God forbid some working class fella gets a bit tipsy and sings a rugby song…”

    Ahh, economic sexual injustice? Seems to be a common theme with these men, they resent what they perceive as women consenting to sex with upper class men, but calling lower class men perverts for trying to do the same thing.

  23. And here I am without any popcorn.

  24. I do however have these.

    (And no, I have no idea why they decided to make the ones with a crunchy peanut butter filling blue.)

  25. Is Felisha the one who is always complaining about not being asked to use certain language?

    It seems like such a strange thing to get upset at everyone about. To be honest, I didn’t even know anyone find found insults like “that’s crazy” offensive to some until I came here. It really hasn’t been hard to not use that language at all. I don’t feel oppressed in the slightest! I don’t why it’s a burden to just try not to be an asshole.

  26. WWTH: Yup, that’s her. Her stampy little tantrum is hilarious.

  27. Also in breaking news, my Etsy tunic arrived! It’s a better colour than the photo shows; the bodice is closer to aubergine. I’ve got it on, it’s warmer than the one I was wearing and it’s turned cool today. :P

  28. Yeah, she went on a several-pages-long rant after I asked her not to make a type of joke. I knew this little hissy fit was coming. Nothing like confirming people’s opinion of her.

  29. Cassandra……. What are those?

  30. Mochi, in 3 different flavors.

  31. I’ve only ever had mochi ice cream. Not a fan.

  32. Aside from dating Sasha, the former model girlfriend seems to lead a charmed life. I mean, I’ve been catcalled and groped in public, and I’m a rather heavyset man with a full beard.

  33. @ Hellkell

    You’re not keen on rice in general, right? Whereas I’ve yet to encounter a rice-based food that I dislike.

  34. Cassandra, I’ve never seen those. They’re cute. I thought the pink stuff was raw fish for a second though. “I’m out of popcorn, but at least I have a jar full of lukewarm salmon”.

  35. Or maybe really old and stale taramasalata? But no, it’s just various kinds of mochi. My kitchen would make the late Dr Atkins cry.

  36. To tell the truth, cats are generally only grumpy with me when I don’t promptly feed them their kibbles.

    I think my cats might not be registered members of the furrinati, because they get more affectionate than usual when I don’t keep their food bowl filled.

  37. Cassandra: yeah, I’m not big on rice. I like the flavor the green tea mochi ice cream had, but not the texture.

  38. Speaking of cats and food bowls, Mads did a perfect Cat Logic act this morning. She was all “Please fill my bowl I am STARVING” and when I looked at it, it was exactly like this pic neuroticbeagle found the other day:

  39. Mmm, mochi. Mochi ice cream is still the only dessert my kid sister will actually LIKE. (Yes, a kid who doesn’t like candy. Go figure.)

    And though the pictures of the tunic are gone, Kittehs, I think Mir would love half the shit that shop has left.

  40. I’m a huge fan of mochi. When I was living in a city with a Trader Joe’s close by, I loved to get the boxes of mochi they sold there.

  41. I’ve never had mochi, is it like a paste in a ball?

  42. Oh, by mochi I’m referring to those ice cream-filled ones. I’ve never tried mochi by itself.

  43. RE: auggziliary

    Mochi is basically rice pounded into flour and made into little blobs with filling inside — red bean paste, stuff like that. Fresh, it is basically chewy dough. If it’s been out a while, it has a consistency like that of a rubber eraser. (I know this due to my poor high school Japanese teacher making us some for Children’s Day.) Mochi ice cream has ice cream in the center.

    I wasn’t a big fan at first, but I’ve grown to like it over time. Especially since my favorite frozen yogurt place back in Boston would put fresh chunks of it in! Mmmm!

  44. The mochi ice cream flavor I like the most so far is strawberry. One thing that kind of annoys me about mochi though is that it’s really, really sticky sometimes. X_X

  45. LBT – here’s the pic again (curse your efficiency, Etsy).

    Mir is right, the clothes in that shop are gorgeous. I’ve been a complete idiot and caved over this one.

    It doesn’t help that someone was saying yes it’d suit me!

  46. Tunic looks wonderful kittehserf. I am coveting that page full of cozy.

  47. RE: Kittehs

    Miranda thinks the second link is quite pretty, though not quite her style.

    RE: Ally

    My kid sister likes the green tea kind the best. But basically all the foods she likes are green.

  48. Is this hellkell’s friend’s shop? She should be getting commission, or at least a new customer finders fee.

  49. The second one is really pretty, but isn’t it scorchingly hot in Australia right now?

  50. No, this is a shop in Wales I found on Etsy. Very similar styles, aren’t they? There’s so much recycled (“upcycled”, ugh) stuff on Etsy I’m lusting after. The whole site is a trap. Thank goodness most of these things aren’t big enough for me …

    It’s not scorching hot in Melbourne at the moment. It’s quite cool today, about 20C. Probably going to be humid and disgusting later in the week, though. Thank goodness autumn isn’t far away, and then winter. I doubt I’ll be wearing the second one before then. But who knows, it may be cool enough in Chicago in early May to wear some of this stuff!

  51. Even Australia can’t stay hot forever, right?

    Speaking of which, my roommate does some pretty awesome fabricy stuff too. Mostly chopping up old stuff and making it into new stuff, patches, embroidery, that kind of thing. Sneak plans to turn some jeans into rainbow sparkle heartbombs with her at some point.

  52. “Upcycled” is such a pretentious word. Fucking hipsters, etc. Being based in Wales does explain the pretty knits, though. How cold does it get in Melbourne?

  53. Ditto about “upcycled”.

    A really cold winter day in Melbourne would be about 9C, and that’s rare. It usually hovers between about 12-16 in a coldish winter and drops to maybe 4 on a cold night. Snow is very, very rare in the city; I’ve never encountered it at all. It gets colder in other parts of the state. Coldest thing that happens in town is if we get a real southerly ripping in. There’s only Tasmania between us and the Antarctic.

    I just hope we do get a cold winter this year. I’ve got all this knitwear to use!

    LBT – does your roommate have any pics online? That sounds gorgeous.

  54. @casandrakitty
    :P

    I was trying to link to this:
    http://jayjayne.com/2010/11/01/nekobukuro-the-“cat’s-house”/

    I hope that works. It is just a link to a blog describing nekobukuro. With pictures! :D

  55. I long for hot weather, even if it’s humid. Here in Minneapolis it’s currently -4f with a -24f windchill. That’s -20c with -31c windchill. It’s the worst.

    I want to go out without bundling up. I want to walk without fearing I will slip on the ice. I want to walk around the lake that’s nearby. I want a tan. I want to live!

    I always get depressed this time of year. Winters are so long here. I won’t ever be surprised if I look out the window and see an army of White Walkers advancing.

  56. Kitties! What a perfect place to park companions who don’t want to shop with you.

  57. RE: Kittehs

    LBT – does your roommate have any pics online? That sounds gorgeous.

    Alas, she does not. She’s working on it, though, and is getting stuff sold at the local art gallery! She recently made a T-shirt dress with a paisley skirt and “Annie Get Your Gun” on the front.

    RE: WWTH

    Ugh, that sounds awful. I got SAD a bit in Boston, but now that I’m in Ohio, the weather seems a touch milder and the sun lasts longer, and I feel a lot better. Of course, having windows helps too.

  58. When I arrived in Colorado, the temperature was really nice for mid February. It was in the 50s in Boulder over the past week or so, but now it has started to snow again, so the temperatures have dropped to about 30-40F. The good thing is that the snow melts extremely quickly because of the temperature, but along with the fast melting come the Chinook winds, which can reach speeds up to 80 mph here in the Colorado Front Range. (And in southern Alberta, the area where those winds are most prevalent, they can reach speeds up to 100 mph – which is in excess of hurricane force).

  59. Kitteh: nice stuff! Secret Lentil’s working on new stuff, FYI.

  60. Fast melting snow is so much better than disgusting grey slush that lingers for weeks.

  61. Is Secret Lentil a reference to the whole Jezebel “eat lentils!” thing?

  62. That’s my friend’s shop name. I’ve never asked why she named it that.

  63. “Lentils!” was a Jezebel meme for a while, in honor of the smug assholes who always jump into any discussion about poverty and food deserts to suggest that if poor people would only learn to cook lentils all their food-related woes would be solved.

  64. Colorado gets really terrible slush sometimes, often as a result of powerful blizzards. In 2003 there was a blizzard that affected the greater Denver Metro Area and it dropped so much snow in such a short amount of time (31.5 inches) that the traffic became hellish and the sidewalk in our cul-de-sac became full of slush. I think one time I stepped straight into a pool of slush that was about half a foot. Pretty cold, needless to say.

    But I have to say that I loved making slush snowballs. It’s like being hit with a water balloon with some snow inside it.

  65. I’d never head the lentils meme. I do remember “lesbian shit-asses.”

  66. (Shudders)

    I hate snow. It’s pretty when it first falls and all, but as soon as people start walking in it, blech.

  67. It’s been so cold for so long here that there hasn’t been much melting. There’s patches of snow that have the same bright yellow dog pee splotch hanging around for weeks. My building allows dogs and my neighbors are good about poop scooping but there isn’t anything to be done about all the yellow snow surrounding the building.

    I have a random cat question for you all. When Dracarys gets frisky and starts running around, she often lets out a fart. It stinks really badly. The stank clings for up to an hour sometimes. It’s really weird. I’m not sure how such a mighty smell could come out of an eight pound animal. I’ve never had another cat who does this. Does anybody else have a kitty who does this?

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