Manosphere misogynists: Perpetually angry that women can say no?
Women: Not obliged to say “yes.”
I‘m beginning to wonder if every single complaint from manosphere misogynists comes back to their rage at the fact that women get to decide who can have sex with them. Take the following comment from MGTOWforums.com. The ostensible topic of conversation? A study reporting that women tend to feel more stressed than men at work. Watch how deftly MGTOWforums “senior member” 7 Deadly Sins turns the topic from “women in the workplace” to “my sad penis.”
They wanted to work so now they’re working. Oh work is too hard and stressing you out? Too bad. You wanted to be career whores, right ? Enjoy. If you give women what they ask for, they still want more. Who cares if they’re stressed out? They can always get dicked down and take some of the edge off. Men can’t get sex whenever they “feel” like it. Nobody cares what you whores think or feel any more.
Damn. That’s some pretty intense boner rage there, dude.
Posted on March 25, 2013, in antifeminism, boner rage, men who should not ever be with women ever, MGTOW, misogyny, oppressed men, penises, whores, women shouldn't work and tagged mgtow, misogyny. Bookmark the permalink. 1,147 Comments.
Really, “dicked down” is a phrase that doesn’t get used enough. “Love is patient, love is kind, love is getting dicked down at will…”
I would be interested in a study on stress levels of people frequenting MRA sites compared to the rest of the population.
That’s about 75% percent of it, I think. The other 25% stems from the related fact that women are now far more able to pursue a sexual relationship that they do want (and it’s pretty much never with these assholes).
In other words, if women had to be celibate spinsters until their (preferably arranged) marriages, then it wouldn’t both these guys as much, though they’d still be pretty boner-ragey.
He has a point. MEN have to turn to alcohol or pills to relieve stress. Females will just whine and cry until someone else makes everything right.
Females claim EVERYTHING is worse for them. Plane crashes are worse for women. Women and children most affected by asteroids.
I think that MRAs have been boner ragey since the dawn of time: “Why Ugh like Durg not like me? I hunt mammoth! Mammoth big! Durg invent stupid round thing!”
Oh god Cavemen NiceGuys…
“I not hit Ugh over head with club! Ugh say she want man not hit head with club! Cave Women only want Cave men with big caves!”
Aw, poor sad boner. Maybe if the person attached to the rage boner wasn’t such an asshole, things would be different.
MRA’s are some of the biggest misandrists there are, as this post demonstrates perfectly.
Men can’t get sex whenever they “feel” like it.
And women can? Women never get turned down? Leaving aside the complexities of homosexuality and asexuality and just concentrating on heterosexual (or bi) women for a moment, this would mean that all men are perpetually ready sexual objects to be used by women. If a woman said something like this, the MRM dudebros would be screaming their heads off, but let an MRA say it and it’s fine.
It’s coming out of the same unthinking attitude as “I’d love to be harassed.” No you wouldn’t, and if you think you would it’s because you haven’t thought the matter through.
I would give real money if this MRM bullshit about women being able to get sex at will would die in a fire already. It lands me back to the “none of these guys have ever actually spoken to a woman have they” thing. No woman I know can get sex on demand. Not even if we were to let go of anything even resembling personal preferences. The world does not work this way. This may be the most delusional part of a completely deluded belief system these fools peddle to each other.
Hellkell: Well, of course–after all, being an asshole is a prerequisite for having a rage-boner. (Not all assholes have rage-boners, but all guys with rage-boners are assholes.)
Nullifidian: This is, indeed, one of the standing beliefs of the Manosphere–they insist that any woman who wants sex can just walk out her front door, spread her legs, and immediately be gratified–furthermore, that they will be gratified by the man of their choosing. And yet, at the same time, they also maintain that women have no interest in sex whatsoever, and that any claim counter to that is an effort to ride the Cock Carousel to the Brass Ring of Child Support, or some shit like that.
I like the way they suggest sex is the cure for stress (and possibly secondary conditions resulting from stress).
Is this a case of the Magical Healing Genitals making its way out of crappy fanfiction?
Well, mra’s I wonder if this stress at work has anything to do with sexual harassment or (in straight couples) having to do a shit-load more of the house work in addition to working. But no, it must be because women are whiney…
men shouldn’t be allowed to work anymore, so we feel comfortable. thanks manboobz!!
I can “get sex” any time I want, and I imagine the same is true for anyone with at least one functioning hand. If it’s just about sexual release, why does anyone else have to be involved at all?
<blockquote If it’s just about sexual release, why does anyone else have to be involved at all?
Because these creeps need to know someone besides themselves isn’t enjoying it.
blockquote monster strikes again!
maybe it has something to do with the fact that women have to work twice as hard to get half the recognition as men
I have this dream where one day David wakes up and scours the Internet for misogyny but can’t find any, so he permanently turns this blog into a place to post animal videos and pictures.
Look, I said it was a DREAM.
Working: it’s only “whoring” when women do it.
Do these guys have something against masturbation?
But the angry guy needs to listen to himself; if he were a woman, would he have sex with someone who calls all women whores?
@cloudiah
…best dream ever? That would be so nice though.
I know these guys will never believe it, but I might as well say it again: no, a woman cannot walk up to any random man and demand sex and he has to have sex with her. That is not a thing that happens outside of porn. Hell, I’m married, and to “take some of the edge off” with my husband I still have to, you know, ask.
More to the point, this guy’s idea that a good way to cure exhaustion after a long day of hard work is with a bout of passionate lovemaking suggests that he doesn’t have much experience with either hard work or lovemaking.
“They wanted to work so now they’re working”
Women have always worked. How stupid are these guys?
hellkell daaaaayyyyuuuuum burn! :D
heidihai; Hai, lady! And RAWR!
If all women can get sex any time with anyone they want, why didn’t I lose my virginity on my seventeenth birthday? I got turned down by my Prom date, I thought that was impossible? And yet a decade later, well past my manosphere sell-by date, I get all the sex I can handle. Bizarre! Despite all these boobs and a decade and a half of menstruation, I must actually be a man.
@Valerian
…some men do have boobs and menstruate. I get what you’re trying to say, but it seems very cissexist.
“I get dicked down, but I get up again…”
I have to admit, I would not use sex as a distressor after a long day at work. Sex can be enjoyable, but it is, itself, usually exhausting for me both mentally and physically.
And considering I was a virgin until I was 21 despite (at the time) believing all my peers were having tons of sex and being ashamed that I hadn’t even ever had a boyfriend, and embarking on a failed quest to have sex before my 18th birthday when I was 16 because I thought 18 would be “too old” to still be a virgin, I am pretty much living proof that women cannot get sex whenever the hell they want it.
Nooooo! Nineties, will you never leave me in peace??
(but that was hilarious, katz)
*de-stressor. Stupid iPhone.
Well, it can be distressing if it’s not de-stressing……….
Welcome, Nullifidian and Valerian!
I’m not sure who’s in the lead for Thread Win so far – Bagelsan with the cavemen MRAs, or hellkell with the observation about sex =/= pleasure (or at least, not pleasure for more than one party) for these guys.
Does anyone remember that game where you start on a random page on Wikipedia, and have to get to the “goal” page by clicking as few links as possible? I feel like you could make a similar game for Manospherians: give them a random topic, and see who can make it about their sad boner in the shortest amount of time.
Nudibranchs? Don’t talk to me about nudibranchs! All dressed up in bright colors, like those bitches who won’t fuck me dressing up to attract an alpha mate. Molluscs are misandry!
drazhizu – I’m almost 50 and a virgin by any earthly standard. And I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t want to be using physical-earthly-sex to de-stress after work, for the same reasons you mention, and because I’d really rather just rest and talk with the Mister and wind down in the evening, and then sleep. There aren’t that many hours in the day! :)
Of course one of the many double standards probably gets into this: they claim women can just walk out and get sex (“Hey, you! Yeah, you in the black tee! Get over here and dick me down now!”) they’re also horrified that any woman other than a supermodel might actually have a sex life. Perhaps those women fall into the ever-shifting “what Real Menz would want to fuck that” category for these cretins?
emilygoddess, LOL!
And pretty! :)
You know what else is misandry? This video:
@cloudiah
What cute kittens! <3
>>>Do these guys have something against masturbation?
Nobody wins when you’re playing by yourself.
(Sex as competitition.)
Scroll up to read the comments by Das Butt and feminizm rulez bro! if you want to see some world class whining. :D
Okay, buttman, ignoring the random capitalization of men, this:
Is just factually untrue. I have yet to hear feminists talking about banning asteroids b/c sexism, or whatever you were thinking of there.
(and thanks for the heads up on them clouidah :D)
What the…? I’m completely at a loss. That sounds like some oddball horoscope.
asteroids are misandry
they only want alpha planets
@starskita
XD I’m so glad I finished drinking before I saw that…
@emilygoddess
Like the Kevin Bacon game?
Will Das Butt and FRB ever be original or witty? Hell, I’d settle for grammatically correct.
So, are dass butt and feminizm rulez bro on moderation? I’m guessing that, just checking.
I think they are, Marie.
Ah, that explains it. Thanks :)
Wow! Women get to go from being house whores to being career whores!
Although, I suppose that any woman who has never worked outside the home could be described as a career house whore…
No, seriously dudes, even when we are at home, we still do a lot more productive work than just insuring we’ve blown you that day.
Alcohol is okay for relieving pain or stress, its hard for me to judge because i haven’t drunk any in judgement reducing quantities yet due to being under 21, but I’ve read some people use it to help them with their fibromyalgia pain. Which if I remember correctly, affects primarily girls, so I guess it’s not real MANLY MAN PAIN.
Real manly man pain is unsatiated boners, as opposed to something that feels like hot coals stuffed in your joints*
Um, oh, yeah, I was going to address the original quote here, too. Which is that if you’re talking about women (excuse me, girls) “whining” as in feminism to try to fix a sexist society, um, people have to do something, man. Guys (in the same position as girls in terms of class, race, ablebodiedness) have always not had to “whine” to fix society because it was already in their favor!
*With respect to people who would describe it differently. :P That’s just my go to description.
I am continually amazed at the way these guys see partnered sex as some kind of magical activity that, in addition to always being satisfying and resulting in earth-shaking orgasms, also cures stress and any other ailments and problems you might have. I’ve had sex a few times, and so far it’s always been vastly more stressful and less enjoyable than masturbation. In some cases, less enjoyable than graph theory homework. Hell, I’ve had sex that was so bad that I started crying from sheer boredom during it. Sex isn’t some kind of wondrous cure-all, it actually takes effort to be good at it & it can be pretty damn terrible if you’re not.
Asteroids? Wha?
Also, nudibranches really are gorgeous.
On topic — yes, MRA whines come back to their boners.
I have to admit, if I were a man in Buttman’s world, I would also develop a drug and/or alcohol addiction. Those poor guys, constantly breaking and/or losing limbs and then having to go into work anyway. I don’t think even the best sex would be enough to de-stress from that, even if you could get it literally on demand.
@AK
Are men in buttman’s world like those lizards that can regrow tails? Cuz if so many men were walking around with their limbs falling of I think I would have noticed, but maybe they are just regrowing them.
@ Merle- Good point and no offense to any trans people reading, I’m sorry. What I meant was: I have reasonable evidence that I’m biologically female and since I’ve never felt like my gender is a mismatch to my birth sex, being male would come as a considerable surprise to me.
@valerian
Yeah, I assumed that’s what you meant, I just wanted to point it out for future reference :)
Be fair now, David. They’re also upset that women get to decide not to make them dinner and not to do their laundry.
I’m trying to imagine how they see this playing out. Say I walk up to the bus driver as I’m handing him my fare and say “fuck me right now, because I’m a woman and I deserve it”. If he doesn’t call security, and he’s willing to have sex with me, how does that work? Does he just stop the bus for half an hour while we get busy? Do the other passengers just accept this because hey, female privilege?
/…emerging form deep lurk
David, I think you are only partially correct. From my reading, the manosphere is ultimately driven by their rage at the fact that women get to decide anything . Which in turn seems to be based on their belief that:
– or –
relurking…/
Also, they know that gay men exist, right? What if I’m horny and at a party where all the men are gay? How is this supposed to work then?
@cassandrasays
well of course. Though the other women on the bus might also start choosing their own sex-buddy. Female privilege also means never having to be bored while *other* women are having sex.
@Shadow
I have actually seen a variant of the Wikipedia game with a “six steps or less” rule.
Semi-related: I watched the first half of a special on the science channel about how closely all humans are related, and they got Kevin Bacon to narrate it. I was amused :-D
@whoever said this:
Female alcoholic here. On behalf of all the amazing women I met in AA, who slogged through hell (guess how many started drinking after rape or abuse?) and dragged themselves to sobriety without whining or waiting for someone else to fix it: fuck you.
“So, are dass butt and feminizm rulez bro on moderation? I’m guessing that, just checking.”
Yes. David is very paternalistic and doesn’t think the delicate flowers ears can stand the truth.
he’s so right, whenever i come home from a shit day at school i just run out in the street and cry and say “PLEASE FUCK ME!” and then i get “dicked down” and i feel totally un-stressed, just like housewives never had any work-related stress before those nasty feminists started working in the 20th century, which was the first time in history women started working.
” On behalf of all the amazing women I met in AA, who slogged through hell (guess how many started drinking after rape or abuse?)”
Are you implying that men are to blame for women’s substance abuse problems now? Female privilege is the ability to blame every single problem of yours on a man. MEN have to take responsibility for ourselves.
I’m curious about what specifically it means to be “dicked down” and why it’s supposed to be fun for the person on the receiving end. The image it calls to mind is of someone smacking another person on the head with his cock, and only people with rather specialized interests are going to enjoy that.
“I’m trying to imagine how they see this playing out. Say I walk up to the bus driver as I’m handing him my fare and say “fuck me right now, because I’m a woman and I deserve it”. ”
The bus scenario could happen but most women find that too crass. What is the more likely scenario is that a woman queues up fuckbook or craigslist and a line of suitors line up.
@buttman
Actually, I think if someone is drinking because of abuse or rape, the abuser or rapist would play a pretty damn big part in it. Manly fucking men don’t have to deal with that shit as often (though when they do patriarchy gives them hell too because women aren’t supposed to be a threat to men, and men are always supposed to want sex.)
Go pet a cactus, butthead.
@DataWeasel
Hello! didn’t see your comment here earlier, but welcome :)